The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

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  • The good, 

    The chemotherapy has started with my son with the BEP combination, also that we got his weight upto 57kgStarted on Friday so we can get on with the good fight v the C

    The bad,

    Mal effects are being noticed now, with sickness, and some closing feeling in the throat which is being treated with anti nausea and morphine. Some loss of appetite being noticed too

  • Morning ashm

    the first step has commenced..... brilliant news.

    they will be keeping a close eye on him ( as we know you will too). 

    You are giving him something they cannot... your love and 24 hr support ️. 

    Keep your chin up... thinking of you and yours x

  • Everything hanging over our head totally sucks don’t it. Hope bella continues to get better and your ca levels improve. 

    Its not just the treatment it’s how the whole thing takes over your life:( x

  • Hi Sandra quite true how it takes over, got a letter yesterday with new count on straight away I was working out rise and how long, then I thought I'm being daft here, let it come I'm fighting it best I can luckily see oncologist in October try to sort something out with him first,.. 

  • Hello all. Haven't been on for long time - Life has been a bit busy. Hope Dizzle you're getting on ok.

    Been preparing for sons 21st and his visit which is all done and dusted and all went really well. Lovely having him home if only for a week. Still suffering badly with fatigue but am seeing physio again today. Had initial appt 3 weeks ago.

    Trying to look for part time work still. Let's see how that pans out.

    Sandra - 2 years already! Time sure is flying! Am sure it'll all go well. Mine is 3 yr mammo in dec. They've go new admin staff at breast care unit - think they're having trouble managing shoelaces let alone appts! One minute I've got 1 then receive a letter saying iys changed to another date then another letter saying iys original date. If this happened once one could understand but it's happened 4 times now......

    Nevermind- at least I'm behind seen.

    Sounds like we have some new you need on this thread. Hang in there - you got this.

    Take care all.

  • Ah lovely to hear from you. Eeek you have a 21 yr old. Glad you had a good time. 

    U r right time is a marching on ain’t it. Doesn’t instill confidence when they muck  up something as simply as an appointment  does it. 

    Look after yourself lass ️

  • Morning peeps 

    bad :- none

    good:- dog sitting while daughter, hubby nd lil ones away for a few days. 1st walk of the day done.... certainly gets me up early lol. 

    Have as good a day as you can peeps x

  • Good :Bella looks alot better she is going for another scan this morning see if any change, bren about same as usual,

    Bad :non yet hurrah,

    Hope everyone as good as can be best wishes to all, 

  • Hi and good morning everyone, sun's out, bad :put gas fire on to warm living room brought Mrs in the fire had switched it self off oops its a modern one all safely things built in oh lovely especially at weekend, good job we've got some fan heaters,

    Hope everyone as good as can be best wishes to all

    Finely got phone call from hospital bren going to have appointment within next month, (marvellous) only took four months up to now. 

  • Great news on the hosp appointment for Bren :)

    Hope you get the fire working soon cos gonna need cos days def getting a bit cooler. I’ve not needed my heating on yet but been shopping for a few jumpers in prep lol. X

  • Afternoon peeps 

    bad :- walking the dog in the rain ..,, dog hates it too lol

    good :- seeing pics of the lil ones on their jollies ️ 

    Hope everyone has had as good a day as they can x

  • Hi Jbains......yeh I'm getting on ok thanks. Only 2 more days til due date. Had to have another growth scan kast monday as my bump is only measuring 34 weeks but scan showed he was fine....just in a different position as hes much lower down. Really struggling with any sort of comfort now....have tried all the old wives tales to try speeding things up but hes comfortable where he is. I guess he'll come when hes ready. 

    Hope everyone else is ok. Weather is rubbish in Southampton today...dog really needs to go out but mummy doesnt wanna get wet. Who can resist this face though .....    

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  • Hi Jbains......yeh I'm getting on ok thanks. Only 2 more days til due date. Had to have another growth scan kast monday as my bump is only measuring 34 weeks but scan showed he was fine....just in a different position as hes much lower down. Really struggling with any sort of comfort now....have tried all the old wives tales to try speeding things up but hes comfortable where he is. I guess he'll come when hes ready. 

    Hope everyone else is ok. Weather is rubbish in Southampton today...dog really needs to go out but mummy doesnt wanna get wet. Who can resist this face though .....    

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