The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Honestly billy my pet hate weeding lol. I’ve got hedgehogs come into my garden nd a lot of birds so don’t want to put anything toxic down. I look like an idiot pouring boiling water from kettle on weeds but it does help... well that nd pulling. 

    Sigh of relief ya car passed its mot  I bet :)

    good nights sleep too u r on a roll ... long may it last :)

  • Just back from shops nd there was nearly a riot in b&m. People had cartfuls nd they announced that the store was having to close because of it probs... nothing was scanning at tills. Well... everyone kicked off so the closed the doors nd said it would take a while but the would enter everything by hand. I put the £2:99 ball of string back on shelf nd left. People wanting to come in were being horrible to the poor bloke outside explaining why they were closed.... bless.

    i am getting over my string loss by drinking wine in garden ;)

  • Morning peeps 

    bad : none

    good:- literally had to drag the dog out of house nd on walk... she does not like the rain nd it’s pouring down. Why is it good... cos we r back :D

    sunday lunch plan is burger from the burger van:D ( I love a burger from the burger van... rarely have so really looking forward lol) the little things eh

    have as good a day as u can peeps x

     

  • That should top up your cr** food count no end!

  • Hi Sarah I don't know if I'm going mad or what, last week got a phone call from the doctor said nead to go down pick up prescription & blood form for wife she had blood done got tabs,sorted,, No,, Saturday letter came new meds for wife & 2 blood forms, same tabs she's already on, last weeks tabs (1 a day) newer tabs (2 a week) letter says have a blood test before starting new tabs, how can she when shes already on them,Monday Going to docs to try and get it sorted.,, am I going mad,, i know im getting mad. 

    Billy

    Best wishes to all hope you have a good holiday. 

     

  • Hello all. Hope everyone is enjoying bank hol. 

    Dizzle - you got this. Whatever it is - right there with you. Very scary when the "suspecting" is happening and the bloody waiting for results but you are a remarkable woman. Hang on tight and keep us posted. I shall keep you in my prayers.

    Have been absent from chat as brother-in-law now terminal and in hospice so been a bit busy. Also finished my temporary role which I took on in Feb- was only meant to be 4 weeks! Thank God as can't hack the commute!

    Hope you all stay well and enjoy the lovely weather. Live love and laugh each day to the fullest.

  • :D.... apparently when not doing child care I am a slob. Just having breakfast now (dry roasted nuts nd a glass of wine):|

    this is totally allowed cos it’s bed rock here so everyone is having the same:D ( bed rock is where every pub in the town has rock bands live with free entry... started at 10:00 a.m,:D- we have a lot of pubs and a field where the bands are playing- show waddy waddy etc). I’m not going but I am embracing the vibe ;)

  • Omg ... our lives in their hands scary moment. You are not mad they are disorganised. Yup u need t see drs to clarify. 

  • Ah jbains sorry to b reading this but good t hear from you. 

    Glad your work is finished... you have never been happy with it. Spend too much time at work you should be happy.

    hope you are doing something you over the weekend x

  • Morning peeps 

    bad:- hangovers suck!

    good :- bumped into friends not seen for aaaaages at burger van nd joined them to see some bands (there was alcohol involved) great time but paying for it today.

    walked dog nd back to bed... I may stay here all day ... sounds best plan ever.

    have as good a day as u can peeps x