The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • [[ ]]Just to make you smile!

     

  • Oh my how fab is this lil one... yup a smile right there ️

  • Awwwww :love: so cute and gorgeous xxx :):):)

  • Morning peeps 

    bad :- none yay

    good :- lil ones slept 7 pm till 7 am ️ ( mind u they always do :-) )

    playing with a couple of big boxes I kept for them then cupcake baking followed by lunch then back home... I am blessed to have them.

    Need to do a quick tidy of garage ( it just needs a sweep really) guy coming to finally fit my 2 nd smart meter on mon ( remember the whole digging up the road to replace my backboard so they could fit it....they r finally coming lol).

    I’m now on s6 of GoT ..... hold the door... hold the door ;-)

    have as good a day as u can peeps x ️X

     

  • Morning :)

    awww you are blessed Sandra xx enjoy xx

    glad im not the only one who keeps boxes for the little ones to play with :grin: I keep all sorts in tins as well.....bits from Christmas crackers and other assorted junk etc and they always ask to play with nanna’s ‘treasure’ :D find the bits everywhere when they've gone though :D love them :love:

    good...another sunny day, was expecting rain today but the sun is winning so far :)

    Bad......none Yay happy day 

     

  • Afternoon everyone,

    Good.....my little rainbow is still growing and painted my bathroom

    Bad....have to have an amnio in March due to a borderline increased risk measurement on baby's neck. Fingers crossed it doesn't show anything up. Also remember how I said my family were non existent through cancer treatment, well i told my mum and older sister today via text about my miracle pregnancy. My mum has just ignored the message and my sister told me i was a joke and deleted my number. I dont know why i expected anything else. She was exactly the same when i was having grace. It must be jealousy as her life is so sad and miserable. Neither of them can bear to see me happy. Really dont get it. But I'm done now. They may be blood but doesn't mean I have to have them in my life. I dont need negativity and stress right now and that's all they bring....so see ya!!!!!

    Hope you've all had a great weekend

    Xx

     

  • Oh Dizzle xxx huge big hugs :love:

    so sorry to hear your sad news about your mum and your sister’s reaction to your little miracle, I don’t get it either and even more so after what you have already been through x

    you are loved and I hope your positivity and courage will win x

    hoping that all is well with little rainbow x

    xxx

     

  • Hey Dizzle you just stay happy and concentrate on your little miracle. I know exactly how you feel - am in same boat re family. Just cut out the negativity from your life and if that includes immediate family then so be it. I am also done with it all. It hurts but we've gone thru enough to realise that actually we are number one and matter alot.

    I will say a prayer for you and I know everything will all work out in the end. You got this!

    There's alot to be thankful for in this life and we get one shot at it so give it your all. Hope everyone is doing well.

  • Thanks Pippen xx

    Jbains I have screenshotted your reply to read when I start blaming myself. I cant comment on my mum as she hasn't even had the courtesy of replying but my sister was just nasty and hurtful. I cried my eyes out at first but now after speaking to close friends and seeing replies like yours I've realised it doesn't matter if people are immediate family...if they are willing to be that horrible after knowing what I've been through them they are not worth knowing. I think she can consider herself cut out of my life now. Not putting up with it anymore x

  • Dizzle I am so sad you have a family like this. How anybody could not be thrilled for you I do not know. Just concentrate on your little rainbow.

    xx