The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Ah brill cornishpastie u nd yr girls will looooove Venice :-)

    no post while on jollies.... try to forget everything cancer ... u deserve it. 

    We will not talk of work till u r back all focus on Venice ;-)

    delighted the got the treatment right for yr lil one...at least that’s a relief.

    nite nite me dear, safe journey- enjoy ️X

     

  • Good morning peeps:-

    beach thinking of u nd hope u managed to get some sleep last night. Sending hugs ️

    The good :- it’s like someone finally turned on the energy tap in my body ... yay! 

    the bad :- ah the footy.... I didn’t watch the match... not my thing- but didn’t need too I heard the roar from all the street when they scored. The street groaned when Croatia scored. Followed by obvious dejected silence. Not my thing but commiserations... it lifted a lot of spirits.

    hows everyone else doing? Have as good a day as u can peeps ️X

  • Good morning ladies

    The Good - slept okish better than I thought I would but think the 2 glasses of wine helped! That’s what watching the football does to you, turns you to drink!

     

    The bad- the waiting again to see if they are going to do anything

     

    Now off to work just hoping time I have a tea break I will have a message left on my phone! 

    Have a good day ladies and a lovely holiday Cornish xx 

  • Evening all.

    Hope everyone is bearing up.

    Good

    43rd wedding anniversary today. My mum said it wouldn’t last as we’d only known each other for six weeks when we got engaged. However so hubby reliably tells me you don’t get that many years for murder. Lol.Went out for a lively carvery lunch.

    Bad

    My poor baby Monty dog has a poorly paw and had to have the nail removed under general anaesthetic. He’s feeling very sorry for himself. Poor little princess.

     

    Sundial

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  • Hope you don’t mind everyone but my daughter is volunteering to help at the special olympics in Stirling. She has to raise £500 so I’ve put a link to the donation site on here if anyone feels they can donate. Please don’t feel you have to but many thanks if you do,

    Sundial

    uk.virginmoneygiving.com/.../showROFundraiserPage

     

  • Poor baby!  Hope he’s OK!

  • Morning peeps 

    thinking of u beach... have u heard anything yet?

    congrats on yr wedding anniversary sundial :-) aw hope Monty is feeling a bit more chipper today.

    is that u finished RT now Warrior ?

    the good:- still coughing nd nose still runny but batteries feel fully charged yay!

    the bad :- none ... good times :-)

    have as good a day as u can peeps x

  • Morning 

    no nothing yesterday

    I am hoping I will hear today otherwise will be next week. Even if it’s “we have looked at mammogram and nothing there” checked again this morning still there x 

  • Bless always with the long drawn out wait.... sigh. Hope u hear today lass... again...thinking of u and sending hugs ️X

  • Hi peeps ... well Friday 13th is unlucky I know ... 

    Good ... picked up my little fiesta this morning ... while a year ago to day I was in the same town for my mastectomy ... when my surgeon said grade 3, and I thought that was it ... how long did you think you had, he said to me ... well I'd like to have the school summer holidays with my emily i told him ... never dreamed id be here this year for another school summer hol with grand kids ... so woo hoo ... i made a year today ...  and still going strong ...so NOT such a bad Fri 13th after all   ; ))  

    Bad ... cancer still sucks ... ; ((  

    Hope your having wonderfull holiday cournish ... you so deserve it ...