The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • The good, house jobs nearly done and not at work tomorrow pm. The bad, friend at works brother died at the weekend, brain cancer. He’s been fighting it for a few years, had been quite successful up to March of this year, went down hill so rapidly after that, my friend didn’t get to see him again after Easter. She’s had to be at home as her daughter was doing a levels and has health issues which get worse with stress. It’s horrible.
  • Hi Liliana. I’m post menopausal and have been for many years, hysterectomy. I’m on Tamoxifen as it does not cause bone thinning which The AI’s can do unless you are put on something to prevent loss, that can be done.  

  • I'm still getting regular menstruation so would be prescribed Tamoxifen. Side effects vary from person to person but some are hot flushes, menopause symptoms and increased risk of endometrial cancer. 

  • Oh boy! we get help for one thing to mess up another. We cant win on this one uh? Thank you,  

  • Hey ladies. I am pre-menopause and had rt and am on tamoxifen. Have had hot flushes, night sweats, bleeding off and on and sometimes got pms symptoms. The side effects were ok - bearable. It has given me blurred vision but that could be down to dry eyes. Sleeping is another matter. I was told by the onco gynae that tamoxifen doesn't let one go into that deep sleep sometimes so I guess it all settles down in time. I've been on it for 17 months and pushing me thru menopause.

    It's a tiny pill but packs a punch. I was told I'll have to take it for 5 years and then change to letrozole for a further 5 years. 

    It's not an easy ride but every one on here has their burdens and issues to deal with. If this has taught me anything it's to cut out the riff raff from my life and do everything I put off for some reason or another. I put myself ahead now. I wanted and was progressing up the ladder and wanted to get to a 3 digit salary. None of that matters to me any more.

    Stay happy and feel very lucky that there are so many people to love and who love you. These little things matter the most. I am ever so grateful I got to know Sandra and rileyroo who helped me at a very emotional time so thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    This blog was what got me through as well as my loving family. So thank you to you all on this forum.

  • I send a truckload of strength to you chemo ladies. You got this!

    It's tough but you all got this! I can't understand what you must be going thru with chemo side effects but know that we are here with you.

    Sandra's right - we all come thru it as tough as it may be. One day at a time and focus on the outcome. You'll soon be helping others like we do who have finished our treatment. Onwards and upwards!

  • Morning peeps :-)

    hope everyone is having as good a day as they can.... going with Rileyroos will improve drastically this afternoon as she’s not at work then ;-)

    hey warrior half way through... on the home run now. Hows u nd ya skin doing? I’m on letrozole - first couple of wks got reallly bad night sweats but they settled down. I also had 2 wks where I ached.. everywhere so much I was hobbling going up nd down stairs ( thought nope I have to contact them t say this ain’t working) then pretty much on the 2 wk mark - woke up in the morning nd I knew it had miraculously cleared up. I literally got up nd ran up nd down stairs 5/6 times... yup it had cleared up nd I was back t normal. They did say push through symptoms cos the usually settle down... they were right. I was initially told would b on 5 yrs but at last appt with the oncologist ( 3 wks after1st) she said new guidelines nd I would b on 10 yrs. 

    Where’s our beach babe? Hows things going hun? 

    The good:- good to b alive :-)

    when I had lil one at park I just realised she doesn’t need help getting on and off things anymore..bittersweet moment... needed just a bit less but she is growing with confidence :-)

    the bad:- none today... yeahhh x

     

  • Had 8th shot of radiotherapy today, skin is still ok. In my radiotherapy review the lovely radiologist looked quite taken aback when I refused the Tamoxifen prescription. She's going to check some stats for me but I'm holding firm with my decision at the moment! x

  • It’s your body, you’re the one that is going to have to deal with it! 

  • It does make me wonder as well whether it's worth it sometimes. I decided to when I was told there's an 82% chance of reoccurrence if I don't take it for my condition. Remember each person is different and what is for one is not for all (before I get scolded)!

    Just saw my post - duh! I meant a 6 figure salary not 3! Wonder where my brain is at times.

    Glad skin is ok after rad. Long may it continue.

    This humidity is awful - need this heatwave to calm down!

    Stayed home today and had a duvet day as if I pushed myself am only gonna get worse. Cold is improving but not 100%. Another week almost over - another 2 weeks and shall be in L.A. and see my son. Cannot wait!

    Take it easy ladies and enjoy your evening.