Stay Strong

I have a busy day and come home to my lovely neighbour mowing my back lawn.  I chastise him and say  I would have got round to it, he knew I was struggling and came in whilst I was out.  These kindnesses make my day.  I think hubby is not looking well and voice my concerns.   Nope he says he's fine but a little niggle tells me otherwise.   I get up this morning and he admits he's not good..  appointment at Doctors and he has another infection.  I am being picked up by a friend to go to Wynyard Hall and gardens, the day is glorious and she has the soft top down,we arrive and I look like Bridget Jones after her ride in an open top car!  We have home made cake and coffee and meander the beautiful gardens looking at the pumpkins, sweetcorn and variety of flowers.  I suddenly spot a flower that hubby and I keep seeing  on our drives and it's driving him insane not knowing its name.  A lady hears us talking, takes a photo, Googles it and walks back to tell me, it's  called the common tansy. People are so thoughtful and kind!  Back home hubby laughs at the state of my hair, saying I look like I have been pulled through a hedge backwards,  charming!!  I tell him the plants name, lovely he says and promptly falls asleep on his sheepskin in the sunny conservatory.   Hopefully the antibiotics will kick in soon, I want my normal hubby back.

  • Hi Annie, it's nice to have you back!   I think the changes in the weather make us unwell it takes time to adjust.   I'm surprised I haven't got a rotten cold as I've had water chucked on me,, freezing cold trains and a hubby who seems determined to kindly give me his.  Every time I go near him he starts coughing madly proving how bad he is!  There is little sympathy from me as he won't see the GP, so he's being spoken to like I talk to the grandchildren and told to put his hand over his mouth.  He's gone out as it's a beautiful sunny dry day, the air will do him good.  Zumba this morning but my knee is a little bit unsure of itself today so I took it steady, need to be fit for Thursday and the Metro Centre !   A few days of afternoon resting is required to get over the past three weeks of family, eating out, travelling to places and late nights!  Faye left me a load of chocolates to open on my birthday and today hubby said text HELP we've run out of chocolate, so it's a peaceful afternoon for me, sausages for tea,  not much cooking, feet up and chill out.   See you tomorrow xx

  • Hi Gloria, I missed your post as it had been the last on the page, Annie posted so that brought up a new page.  I'm not surprised you are fretting about the lump, it must be so scary for you, I hope and pray you will be alright .  Last year when Norman was having chemo we attended James Cook for his leg.  I sat miserably in the waiting room thinking of all his problems when a man in his fifties started speaking to me,  he had lost his leg aged 18 in a motorcycle crash, we chatted and I mentioned the cancer we were dealing with.   He left, came back and held my hands, I'm a Christian he said and I will pray for you both.  Honestly at the time I didn't think too much of it as we were stage 4, incurable, but hubby responded to treatment and the tumour shrunk more than anyone hoped for.  I often think of him and his promise.   So Gloria I'll have faith in you and say my prayers and wish for a positive outcome.   Lots of love , Carol xx 

  • Hi Carol. Seeing my GP in the morning about this new lump. Hoping and praying it’s another benign one but just need to know. So worried. On my mind all the time. Thank you for your good wishes and kind words. Love to you and the other girls xxx

  • Keep us updated please !  Hugs your way. Xx

  • Hello all 

    I'm still here!  Everything is still ok right now.  We've been for another blood test today (for liver function) but still waiting for scan on 22nd.

    Carol I hope Norman's cold gets better soon.  Glad you enjoyed Lion King but sounds like you had mixed fortunes in London...

    Gloria, love and best wishes for tomorrow. X

    Annie, take care also.  Hope your back is on the mend.  Will post more soon.

    Much love everyone.  Xx

     

  • Hi girls, it's lovely to hear from you.   I'm a little bit worried about Sue as we messaged every day for weeks, I've private messaged her, so I'll let you know.   Julie you sound upbeat, I found its really the only way to cope with the unknown, others are interested in what's going on but soon get bored if you talk about your problems. When everyone is aware of your position I say nothing now unless they specifically ask!  Zumba was hard today as my knee is showing it's age!  I daren't tell Faye I'll be instructed to put my feet up and knit Don't laugh but hubby has just fixed our cupboard door, he dragged the chair across the tiled floor, the noise was dreadful,  I was ironing again as the new  cleaner stripped every pillow cases off the beds, meaning I had sixteen pillow cases to iron instead of eight, so instead of waiting for me to carry the chair back he dragged it again and promptly banged it off his poor toe, honestly it's like having a disobedient teenager in the house.  My front room looks like a Chinese laundry,  underpants on the radiator, stuff over the settee,  everything takes so much drying if you don't use the tumbler dryer. I had hung the duvet cover over the banister but according to his lordship I'm making the house damp and this can cause him problems he tells me, I bite my tongue, I suppose the cigarettes since age 16,the pack of cigars a day when he stopped the cigarettes and years of working in a paint powder factory haven't ! It's my damp bedding, I should have known! ! Xx

  • An update on Sue,  she's had a bit of downtime but is OK.   X

  • Hello all.  So pleased you had a good birthday Carol.  I was with a friend who has no television which was quite pleasant for a change.  I have been all out of sorts and feel quite grumpy with myself.  I hope my back sorts itself out; if I need to pick something off the floor I have to lift one leg like a stork or a flamingo or something and grab whatever it is with the other hand.  Sorry to hear that Gloria has had a worry, here's hoping that there will be some good news soon.  Julie, sorry to hear of the hospital delay but otherwise.  Still catching up on everything.  Carol, hope your hubby is feeling a bit better.    Annie

  • I have been on a marathon shop today and now own a beautiful RADLEY HANDBAG courtesy of my very good longstanding friends who I adore and class as family?   So thank you Mary and Joe I love you lots.   Hubby says he's getting better but coughing in the night is pretty bad and again this morning.   He said he'd swallowed his tea the wrong way,  any excuse to avoid the C word.  It's a worry and stressful but what am I supposed to do?  There had been a crash on the A1 so it took longer than normal to get to the Metro Centre,  we needed coffee and cake!   I had promised Chris and John a photo I'd taken at her 70th of them both and saw a stand alone hub promotional advert whilst there,  I  now have the photo on a piece of slate which looks fabulous, so I'll take that with us on Christmas Day, they will be thrilled.   I didn't intend to Xmas shop but it was Black Friday so I nabbed a few bargains.   I popped into M & S for a steak pie for tea.  Back home a parcel has been shoved through the door but it's not mine, so I  walk with it to the house it belongs to, she opened the door and took it off me, they said it had been delivered she says, yes to my house , she takes it off me and shuts the door in my face!   I walk all the way home and tell hubby, next time I'm doing nothing it can sit here until they collect it , how rude!!  Sue is coping but not too good these past few days, Annie I'm sorry you feel down, but you've had a few health problems this year and winter can be hard.  Gloria I hope your news was as you wished and Julie look after that husband of yours.  Xx

  • As I had an hour to spare I have checked some posts to see if I could help in some way.   However some are written in text speak which is extremely hard to understand and I give up half way through.   This is sad as our experiences can help. Or am I old fashioned ?