Ok so my dad has been unwell recently we have been back and forward to the doctors. They sent him for a chest x-ray a few days later he got a letter to go for a ct scan then a letter came to go to the respiratory department at the hospital that isn't until this Monday 7th Aug. 

However we were at the doctors on Tuesday and he had a quick look at the X-ray and said it's looking like a lung cancer that is also on his spine , lower back and ribs. He said it's looking more like palliative care than being able to be treated. He did say take what he said with a pinch of salt and wait until Monday to see what the hospital have to say! 

My whole world has been ripped apart I've always been such a daddy's girl. My heart is breaking. I have took the decision and brought my wedding forward to 22nd September 7 weeks away, my dad's wish has always been to see me married before he passes and I want nothing more than my dad to give me away on my big day. Everything is in place for 22nd. But now I just keep thinking what if my dad is to sick to attend or worse what if he is gone. Has anyone been in this position that can talk to me. If it is terminal how long do you think we have got? I'm hoping the wedding will give him something to keep strong for.