So I am battling Stage 4 Breast Cancer for the last 3 years.  I am 41 years old, married and mother of an 8 year old boys with special needs. Last night my son was having a meltdown which obviously led to ME getting upset as I was having a particularly rough day myself. When I couldn't adequately verbalize the cause of my emotional distress to him,  he actually got mad and said he couldn't handle "mine and my son's "xxxx" at the same time!!!! This is not the first time he has said something like this to me and frequently like to point out that I'm letting my cancer interfere with our life negatively. He even has the nerve to say he doesn't get laid enough or I don't offer enough massages on his bad back and it's not fair because "before I was a cancer patient I was a wife" and now I'm neglecting my deities whether it's sex, cooking enough, or cleaning every day or SEX.  Usually I ignore his foolish comments but this time I'm really upset!  Am I wrong??