I am a 30 year old woman with 3 children adged 11,9, and 6 my husband is 31 and last year was diagnosed with stage 3 inoperable melanoma in his throat and lymph nodes in his neck they have said that surgery is not an option as the place its in and chemo wont work either. He is currently on his 20th cycle of immunotherapy and we are coping in our own way but I cant bare to talk to him about the future as I am so scared could someone give advice please x