NETS - Neuroendocrine tumours

Hi there, 

I'm new to this site and needing to talk and share my experience and feelings.   My family are in denial about my diagnosis

and have a difficult time acknowledging there's anything wrong with me.   I have my scans coming up in the next few weeks and have had a recent fall which has lead to me having to take time off work to allow my injuries time to heal.   

If there's anyone out there with NETS or in a similar position I'd really like to hear from you   

Best wishes 

Dee

 

 

  • Hi Denise,

    My name is Andy and I have had my NET for Eleven years and it's difficult for me to explain about every NET .As you say you might not have one so I know it is easy to say but keep calm. Firstly, is you Doctor aware as this is the first priority to discuss. My advice at this point is to contact the below sure where they have a mass of information. Coincidentally,  I received their hand book this afternoon that is excellent What you need to do is contact an in line specialist site as a NET is rare or lesser known cancer and each one is different.  Go to NET PATIENT FOUNDATION. They are a great team that have helped me a lot and gave a wealth of information that will help you and you can call them for advice without any problem. The team us excellent and supportive.

    If you are struggling even more come back to me but please visit the expert first

    Very best wishes

    Andy x 

     

  • Hi Dee, 

    I agree completely with what Andy has said.

    Do contact The Net foundation, we were told by the consultant that this is the site they recommend for Nets patients. 

    My husband has pancreatic net with spread, diagnosed December 2015. He doesn't want to know anything, so I am the one who does the reading / research etc. just wanted you to know there is someone here who understands, if you want to chat. 

    Best wishes 

    xx

     

  • Hi Andy, 

    Thanks for your message.   I was diagnosed with metastatic pancreatic neuroendocrine tumour which was resected by whipples in feb 2014.   Following the operation I had recurring sepsis and spend most of 2014 in and out of hospital.   I am having monthly lanreotide injections and under the care of the royal free in London.   

    My last 2 scan results have been positive and the disease is described as stable however as you know upcoming scans do cause increased anxiety.    I have attempted to go along to some of the support groups however they are normally quite a distance away which makes having family and friends around to talk to as crucial which sadly I don't have.  

    Thanks again Dee 

     

     

  • Hi there, 

    thanks for your message that must be tough and Diane's as though your husband is in denial as are my family.   I'm the kind of person that wants to know everything about my illness and have been proactive in being referred to the royal free and getting the treatment I need.   I have read lots about nets and want to share with my family however they don't seem really that interested and generally fob me off by telling me not to worry snd minimising any of my worries.  

    Thanks for being there.  

    Dee 

  • Hi again Dee, I think everyone reacts differently to the knowledge someone they love is ill. I know our family all deal with the problem in their own way. Whilst one wants to know everything, others are happy to believe all is fine, while my husband carries on ' as normal' For those members of the family it enables them to cope. I, like you need to know all the details, as they say, knowledge is power. Keep strong, come to this site to vent, there are always people ready to listen. Just keep plugging away at the family, they are probably taking in more than you think, I'm sure they care far more than you realise. We also have scans looming, always a difficult time, good luck to you, come back and tell us how it goes. Take care Dee.xx
  • Hi Dee 

    I have NETs in my pancreas and like you my family are in denial I feel alone and that they think because they have never heard of it that it's nothing. 

    I'm afraid all the time and always have to put a smile on my face as I'm not aloud to talk about it  to my mum or daughters. 

    I have lost friends who I have known for years and the few I do have left only talk when they are down or need help. 

    I have so many questions I want to ask but I'm so afraid to ask. I don't know how I should feel I do feel ill most of the time but I keep telling myself it's a bug not the cancer  

    take care 

    Shell 

     

  • Hi Shell, You sound so alone in dealing with all this, can you manage to get along to a support group at the hospital where you're being treated? There will be people around that really understand how you feel and can help you. My Husband doesn't want to talk about it, he's just had his latest scan results ( stable) so as far as he's concerned it's business as normal now, until the next time, me I want to know everything.This shows how we're all different, not just people who have the cancer but also the family and friends. On the whole our friends have been very supportive, but there are people who have distanced themselves from the situation, that's just life I feel. Try to get to the meeting etc and make new friends who really understand. Don't be afraid to ask questions, you must be worrying about not knowing, rather than being able to deal with what you do know. Taking some control will make you feel more positive I'm sure, Best wishes to you. Denise
  • Hello Dee,

    I have a lot of information for you but cannot post it to you because of the limitataions on postings. I am on a new PRRT treatment etc So i am frustrated i cannot pass it on. Andy/dorro

     

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