im new, I'm 39 I'm at final stage metastatic renal cell carcinoma , diagnosed a month before I turned 38 , its been a real struggle , not much left in me , I found this chat room helpful reading about others , I no there's people who have it a lot harder then me so no tears,  wish we could all meet maybe then I could try speaking about it. 

it really is a Lonely place having cancer, but it could be even worse. Maybe it's better I don't have anyone... but I'm glad I have this forum so maybe a bit positivity can help.