Facing it alone.

After mastectomy I now have to face Chemo and Herceptin. My daughter is pregnant and has an A  Autistic son. She has no time to help me. My son in law has no interest in my illnes. It feels like New Horizons are brushing me aside. I love on my own. I feel so isolated and alone. Where do I turn.

  • Hi there

    I'm really sorry to hear this.  Are Macmillan able to help you out and point you in the right direction?  They might be able to tell you of meetings in your local area that can offer you support from other people with cancer. There will always be people here able to offer support, help, advice and a general chat. I know not the same as someone there with you. 

    Take care x

  • Hi Annie.  Michelle is right - your breastcare nurse or the McMillan nurses should be able to introduce you to others in a similar situation or certainly tell you about support groups in your area.

    Sometimes normality is good - and helping your family with everyday things is a good escape from the cancer life. Maybe suggest having mum/daughter time now and again, so this disease doesn't dominate you and your families lives.

    Have you a friend who could keep you company sometimes or other family who will support you? I have made some lovely friends here on the forum and really hope you will too.  I have herceptin receptive breast cancer- sadly at stage 4 - so have been through most related treatments if you ever have any questions.  Hopefully u will also meet others at your chemo appointments.

    Sometimes you will feel alone with this disease, even when you are surrounded by others. It's at times like these that the forum is invaluable.  Please keep in touch and all the best to you x