You 'go' girl....you live with it .....live being the important word!!!!! On days you feel up to it,enjoy normal things & laughter with friends & family.ive had my diagnosis only a year & joke knowing my luck I will be killed by a bus.....we are the lucky ones in some respects,we have time to enjoy our life because only when you have to face up to cancer do you understand truely what living means to you!hope this makes sense...