Rectal cancer surgery

Hi everyone,

Thought I'd post my latest update in this topic area as oppose to tagging it on to my thread in the 'Introduce Yourself' area.

I saw the Colorectal surgeon today for the results of my scans and the next step with regard to surgery.

He told me that the radiotherapy and chemotherapy hadn't shrunk the tumour as much as he'd have liked, but sufficiently to still operate.

An added complication was the fact that the scan also showed that I have a tennis ball sized fibroid in my uterus, which will hinder the surgery, so I will have to have a hysterectomy too ; gynaecologist in first, colorectal surgeon next - like a tag team! ( I may sound flippant, but I am struggling a bit with all this!)

Also have to have my cervix removed and top end of my other lady bits! (Sorry to the men reading this!) (Scan showed I also have gall stones and cysts on my liver! But these are not a problem!)

I listened to the list of 'parts' the surgeon said he was going to remove, wondering if there'd be much of me left!

I looked down at my body and said " It's amazing how much is going on in there!" Bear in mind I'm the size of Kylie Minogue! He did say I made his job easier by being so slender!

He'll take out a section of lower bowel and join it to the the section of rectum that will remain after he's taken the tumour out of there!

I'll have an ileostomy (as correctly predicted by Beaker) which may or may not be reversible in a few months time. And I may need more chemo after surgery; this depends on the pathology report on the section of bowel that will be removed.

So . . . We're now planning a 'pre-op' holiday (the hospital have kindly organised a pre-op assessment for tomorrow so that we can go anytime between now and the operation on September 17th.)

Another 'bright side' moment; when I was diagnosed and had my treatments, my lovely colleagues wanted to do something to support me other than the usual flowers and cards. so they have organised a sponsored walk to raise money for the local cancer hospital where I had my radio/chemo and it's due to take place on September 15th, and I'll be able to go along and add my support!

So many positives, but still can't help feeling a bit all over the place! All aboard the cancer roller coaster eh?

Hope everyone else is ok?

Love to all, Meerkat xx

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  • Hi Meerkat,

    Thanks for the update. I do love you positive attitude and sense of humour. Sorry to read you are going to lose so much of "You". That's good news that the hospital has organised a pre op assessment so quickly to enable you to have a holiday. You do seem to have some lovely colleagues organising a sponsored walk for your cancer hospital. 

    I am not at all surprised that you feel to quote your words "A bit all over the place".

    Wishing you all the best for tomorrow. Best wishes, Brian.

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  • Hi Meerkat,

    Thanks for the update. I do love you positive attitude and sense of humour. Sorry to read you are going to lose so much of "You". That's good news that the hospital has organised a pre op assessment so quickly to enable you to have a holiday. You do seem to have some lovely colleagues organising a sponsored walk for your cancer hospital. 

    I am not at all surprised that you feel to quote your words "A bit all over the place".

    Wishing you all the best for tomorrow. Best wishes, Brian.

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  • Hi Brian,

    Thank you for your message of good luck for today! Wow! What a lengthy appointment! And as for the blood test . . . I swear they took an armful!

    My blood pressure was raised so I had to have a heart trace to make sure that it was only 'white coat' syndrome!

    You're right about my lovely colleagues. Cancer has affected other members of staff where I work too and it impacts on everyone! So this is their way of giving something back to the charity hospital who helped me!

    Well, the sun is shining here so I'm off to lift a few plants out of a border as we've got some fencers in tomorrow and I don't fancy the plants chances much!

    You take care, best wishes, Meerkat x

  • Hi Meerkat,

    You made me laugh about the white coat syndrome. Also With regard to the blood test I feel sure they have tamed vampires the amount of blood they take some times.

    Glad to here you have seen the sun. It has been overcast here this afternoon.

    Take care and sending best wishes to you both, Brian

  • Hi Brian,

    Your comment about the tamed vampires made me chuckle! Especially as the band (tourniquet?) that they put on your arm to 'pump' your veins up prior to blood letting had a cartoon Dracula and Transylvanian style castle on it! Very appropriate!

    Have you suffered any recent bouts of Brianitus or is your wife 'managing' your condition?

    Best wishes, Meerkat x

  • Hi Meerkat,

    Thanks for the reply. A friend of mine always refers to the area they take bloods as the vampires den. I thought that someone had a good sense of humour with the cartoon you mentioned. This does help put us at ease with just something simple, bit not all doctors have a sense of humour. When I was diagnosed with  prostate cancer they also found I was diabetic and had high cholesterol. So I said to this GP as I have got three at once, do I get the third item for free and he just gave me such a look as to say he thought I was a blithering idiot. Yet the girls in the radiotherapy dept were always laughing and joking and it was so nice. One day I went in for my treatment and usually there were only two young women in there, but this day there were four of them. So I said, why this red carpet treatment for me today and one of them replied, not at all Brian, we've heard you have been misbehaving so we've called up reinforcements. I can only say I had been on my best behaviour, honest.

    I have had a bout of Brianitus today as a big bag of crisps was found in our trolley. My wife tries hard to manage it but without a lot of sucess I'm afraid.

    Hope you get your holiday sorted out and that you have a great time. Take care, best wishes, Brian