I was diagnosed with Cancer in March and although we knew it was Cancer its still a shock to be told it. I have had 2 chemo cycles now and have my 3rd at the end of the month. I would love to chat about the chemo side affects to anyone..
I am sorry to hear that things are not going so well for Mary.I dont know if this information is of any use to you but I go regularly to a herbalist and while it does not cure cancer I managed to get through chemo without my immune system becoming compremised .I do realise that it could be argued that it is a placebo but for me the main issue is that it seems to work as an immunity booster.The other thing is it can help your confidence to have esomething outside the hospital which you feel is usefull.I have had the shivers before from infection the doctor called it the rigors which has stuck in my head as a horriably discriptive word. My partner who is not at all into alternative remedies also goes to see the herbalist.
Hi John, & Everyone, Rose, Jackie , Dot, Sharon, all the new ladies,
I have been to Ireland on Holiday so only briefly read through messages. John it seems you have been going through a rough spell with Mary. So sorry about that.. I am thinking how we seem to all go quite and then a big explosion of things goes on.
I hope we can still carry on trying to cope with this? I have just forgot I ever had it and live as normal life as I can. Will send a longer message next week as still away from home so using my friends laptop.
Mary had a much better sleep last night and seems a lot brighter today. They do not think that the hickman line has caused the problem but are going to remove it as a precautionary measure. I'm hoping that she will be home by the end of the week so she can get some proper rest.
@Jackie - I mentioned to her about sleeping tablets, she is not keen on taking even more meds but will ask as a last resort. I hope your appointment goes well in June, maybe you have an alergic reaction.
@Rose - Funily enough I took her some ear plugs in tonight, I bought them a while ago when she complained about my snoring. She had trouble getting them to stay in her ears so I may have to look for some that are a better fit. I got her to listen to some chill out music on her mp3 player and that helped to relax her a lot.
@Miras - I suggested the mask to her. but she said the light issue wasn't too bad, she has her own room so it's easier to keep a bit darker.
@grumpy - Funny you should say that. I have been giving Mary a liquid iron herbal formula all through her chemo, but stopped it when we went to Portugal for a few days. It seems that since she has stopped taking it, she has started to have issues with neutrophils, hemoglobin and now an infection. May be unrelated but it makes you wonder doesn't it?!
@Eileen - Welcome back! I hope you had a nice holiday and all is well with you.
Sorry to hear you're going thru such a hard time, best wishes to Mary and she sounds like she's on the mend.
I notice you mention going on hols - did you manage to get travel ins for Mary? was it very expensive? can you recommend any companiea? Its just that i'm living in hope of having a holiday abroad when my chemo is over and don't know if its possible.
thank you for your wishes, Mary came home on Thursday after 6 nights in hospital (less her hickman line). She was very tired and fatigued but is slowly getting her strength back. Will see what they say at clinic on Thursday when she tries yet again to get the final chemo cycle started.
Re holidays. Problem is as soon as you mention cancer, the premiums go through the roof! We decided to do our own risk assesment on Mary just before our 4 night stay in Portugal. She was doing really well at the time, so we opted to take a policy that excluded pre-existing conditions, i.e. any cancer related health issues were not covered. As it was an EU country, we would have state cover through our E111 cards in an emergency. We used Bromley Insurance who were very helpful, it was one of the many companies suggested in my thread
My next Dilemna is our week in Turkey in July, not an EU country so this is a difficult one. Do we cancel, or pay over £350 to cover Mary's ovarian cancer?
Good luck, I hope you get your holiday, we all deserve one!
Just my 2p worth, I'd pay the insurance for non eu as anything Mary develops (hopefully nothing!) they will say is secondary to her cancer or its treatment
My rash is not allergy John, much as I wish it was! My cancer has a very unusual presentation, it starts with a rash, then my major muscles start going. None of the usual sypmtoms for me!!! But this time the muscles are ok, so not sure whats going on! Have bloods next week in prep for appointment so that should tell me whats going on (thou I'm not sure I want to know!). Feeling good which is also unusual if the cancer is back, so adding things up have decided its not back but have got the dermatomyocytis (rash and muscle) independently!
I hope your all ok and keeping well. I have been getting really bad heart palpitations, hot flushes, shaky and weepy. I went to see my gp and she said I probably need to take an alternative to HRT. She has given me info on various stuff I can take. Have any of you ladies experienced these symptoms ?
I came off HRT about the time of the op and never went back on it, it was another risk faction in blood clotting which as you know I have problems with anyway! Since that I have continuious hot flushes but fortunately nothing else and as I know they will go within mins I have learnt to 'ignore' them. Sorry no experience of other forms of HRT so can't give you any advice will have to wait for the other ladies to input. Hope you find a treatment that suits you soon
It is strange, I thought I needed my blood pressure tablets increasing but my BP was normal so the nurse thinks it's hormonal. I will wait for other feed back.
Mary had her chemo on Thursday. We saw her Professor and he has decided to cancel her last 2 treatments! He is very happy with her progress, all of her levels are where they should be and the tumour markers are now normal. He could see no benefit in putting her through 2 more treatments, especially as she is getting increased issues from numbness due to the Taxol. He told her he doesn't want to cause her any permanent damage and will see her again in 3 months. We also told him we were anxious about going to Turkey in July, he told us to go, he could see no reason why we should cancel.
It was a very emotional day, a lot of tears. A mixture of relief and anxiety, we're not sure how we feel but it is certainly a weight off of our shoulders right now! Having listened to other people's stories on here, we are of course anxious that it will return. But for now, we have Mary's 50th Birthday party to organise, then a nice Turkish holiday to look forward to. (I will take your advice on the insurance Jackie).
Thank you so much for you support over the last 5 months or so, it is appreciated more than you know. I am keeping everything crossed for you all, I hope that you too will have some good news soon.
