hi im 36 mother of 3 n diagnosed dec 23. ive had 2 ops n 5 of 6 chemo n finding it very hard at mo. feel so peed off n cant get rid of that feeling. would love to chat. x
Hi I'm 45 and just found out that a lump I had on my breast is cancerous, I had lump and lymph nodes removed last tues, so I'm now waiting to hear what treatment I'm going to need, My consultant has said most likely 8 sessions of chemo every 3 weeks, so 6 months in total and then radiotherapy mon-fri for a month, so i'm kinda in the unknown zone at the moment. Not looking forward to the hair loss, terribly vain i know, but my hair is very important to me like most women, I colour it blonde which will obviously have to stop. As far as I know my chemo will be given intrevenously, so my hair will most probably fall out. I am going to look into getting a real hair wig as I dont think i've got the guts to go au natural, I've also picked up a couple of bandanas to wear about the house. My partner says it doesnt matter if my hair falls out, as long as i'm here. Luckily I've found the lump very early by self examination whilst on holiday and my consultant is very positive about me getting better. I'm very wary about the next 9 months but feel quite determinded that chemo is a wonder drug and will make me better. My girls are 22 and 20 and are amazing, they have read stories in magazines about Kylie, sally from corrie etc and are determined I will just do what the doc says and get better, my partner who ive only been with for 2 years is the most wonderful guy ever, dunno what I'd do without him, he's been with me every step of the way. I was worried about losing my breast, but fortunately I had a lumpectomy which looks amazing. my consultant says put your life on hold for the next 6-9 months get better and you'll never look back, oh yeah sounds easy, but im trying really hard. I hope I'm still this positive whilst I go through my treatment (def not I hear you say) lol, but I'm a determined ***!
just had my lump and nodes removed thursday (12th Aug) so will know my treatment shortly. I am expected to have radiotherapy and chemo but i thought radiotherapy came first, seems on here it is the other way around - perhaps I wasn't listening. I'm feeling a bit daunted at what comes next but more so for the effect it will have on the family - i worry too about not being the glamourous vital woman i was and will that change my realationship with my partner and so on. Although we are planning to get married. So much to talk about! it would appear you will be going through treatment at around the same time as me, so if you would like to stay in touch and discuss our good and bad days, please do !!! my email is simplysara1@hotmail.com
I,m still here.Caroline,s results werent through so the poor thing has to wait again.In a hospital near me they have just opened a 6 million pound BC unit where all the scanners and machines are together so that it can all be sorted on the spot and not visit different hospitals.
Bed time is murder when they are 2 ,you have to catch them when they are tired but not too tired which is a skill in itself.Soon you will be able to run after him and sort him out !!We have been blackberry picking today,had loads and put them in the freezer for crumbles and tarts in the winter.i used to make blackberry wine but still have some from last year so wont bother this year.
Going to watch The Bodyguard on telly now for the 20th time,I do like Kevin Costner.
Have a lovely night and congratulationsAt last :love:
glad i'm not here all alone! family is great but they're not 'the girls and tony'! nice to see you're there rose, you're the only one on-line with me by the looks of it! poor caroline; that must be bloody awful. all my hopes and thoughts are with you love.
Wow - the positive feelings coming out of here the last couple of days even with the dreaded results due and feeling like crap! And even more suprised was I to see so many of you enjoying a glass of something good! so with my bottle on its way to me as we speak - my last drink for a good while as 2nd surgery this Monday, I will be drinking to your successes and for good news for the rest of you.
i sometimes come here too and find there is no one here to talk to - but if anyone has MSN just add a 1 at the end of my name the usual AT and then hotmail dot com. I would love to have more of a 'chat' than just post messages, its a bit more personal.
By the way - I hope you ladies have been checking out "LOOK BETTER FEEL GREAT" for those of you who don't know - it is a make over for ladies with cancer - how to do makeup and a small bag of goodies too. A real pampering session - free of charge - find it on the net !!!!
I had my grand children here today. Little sophie (4) was no trouble but my little Aiden (2 ) - well he wears me out just thinking about him, so for all of you with little ones, I sympathise! They keep you strong but wear you out!
Have a really good weekend all, and I will check in with you all later in the week.
glad you're having one with us. good luck for monday, be thinking of you. speak to you when you're next online. i'll try n sort msn next week when time. are you on facebook? im not but jon is. wishing you all the best hun n lots of love to you.
Enjoy your tipple ,how long will you be in hospital?
I love having my grandchildren over (3years,9 months and 3 weeks) but they do wear you out .As you said i take my hat off to anyone going through this and looking after young ones.I keep getting tearful at things Harry says,especially when he says I am his best friend.( blubbering grandmother )
