Lung cancer - been told I can't have treatment as it would ruin the time I have left. It's stage 3 and not spread

  • I was diagnosed with lung cancer after a trip to A&E due to breathlessness cause by exposure to asbestos 
  • consultant appt later said 6/12month life span due to heart problem I did not know I had came up on CT scan of lungs
  • I was very fit up until this for my age 83y walking the dog twice a day for 1/2hrs.
  • i have been denied treatment as told it would ruin the time I have left
  • the cancer is stage 3 and not spread
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  • Dear Fussyjan,
    ​I am so incredibly sorry you are going through this. To go from being active, walking your dog twice a day, and feeling completely fit, to receiving this kind of news must feel absolutely shattering. It is completely understandable that you are reeling from this.
    ​It is incredibly frustrating to hear that the cancer hasn't spread, but that your heart condition is stopping the aggressive treatments you might otherwise have had. Medical teams often make these difficult decisions because treatments like chemotherapy, radiation, or surgery put an immense, sometimes fatal stress on a compromised heart. Their goal is likely to ensure that the time you do have is spent feeling as well as possible, rather than suffering from severe treatment side effects in a hospital.
    ​That being said, you absolutely have the right to clarity and a voice in your own care.

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  • Dear Fussyjan,
    ​I am so incredibly sorry you are going through this. To go from being active, walking your dog twice a day, and feeling completely fit, to receiving this kind of news must feel absolutely shattering. It is completely understandable that you are reeling from this.
    ​It is incredibly frustrating to hear that the cancer hasn't spread, but that your heart condition is stopping the aggressive treatments you might otherwise have had. Medical teams often make these difficult decisions because treatments like chemotherapy, radiation, or surgery put an immense, sometimes fatal stress on a compromised heart. Their goal is likely to ensure that the time you do have is spent feeling as well as possible, rather than suffering from severe treatment side effects in a hospital.
    ​That being said, you absolutely have the right to clarity and a voice in your own care.

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