Skin cancer - waiting for surgery but I'm struggling. I won't leave the house without a hat as it hides the cancer on my face

Hi I'm James I'm 46 years old and I have skin cancer I'm waiting to go in to have surgery and I had a anxiety attack before Xmas which I walk out of hospital in really scared of hospital and doctors and I'm struggling to live day by day I want go out and I'm hiding from people as it's on my face the skin cancer I'm thinking to much about it and trying to put brave face on for my kids butt it's really hard and I am struggling my wife trying her best butt I want go out unless I wear a. Hat to hide my cancer 

  • Hello James10 and welcome to Cancer Chat.

    I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis and what happened just before Christmas. This must be incredibly stressful, even more so when you are feeling self conscious because of where your cancer is, but we are sending you all our support James and I'm sure some of our members who have been in a similar position will stop by soon to share their experiences and advice.

    Speaking of our members, you may be interested in having a look and possibly joining in on this discussion: Diagnosed today with Basal Cell Carcinoma on the nose and feeling worried as it has a lot of members who really do understand how you're feeling and what you're going through.

    Managing your emotions and living with skin cancer must be very tough so if it would help to talk any of this through with one of our cancer nurses they're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. They're very insightful and will do all they can to support you whilst you wait for surgery.

    We're thinking of you James and I hope being a part of our community will give you the strength and support you need at this rather anxious and challenging time.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator