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Not understanding why my life is like this

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Hi all my name's Vikki I'm new here but I'm here because I'm struggling my whole journey for the past 3 years has been turbulent and I'm going through emotions I can't no longer hide anger hurt fear frustration  I'm just wondering if it gets easier I was treated at one hospital last June iv since been moved to another because after surgery biopsy scans and being diagnosed over the phone whilst trying to hold my emotions in because I was driving bk from Cardiff with my two year old sitting next to me and my partner driving in the pouring down rain i geel like.im Jeremy kyle but im not..it's my life and I just want to understand  what now thanks for reading

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   Vikki xx

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    It's just as well we cant see into the future and see situations like this coming up.  In your position I'd probably go down the medication and. counselling route but you've got to do what's right for you.  For me distraction is also key - exercise reading, watching reality TV - whatever gives your mind a break from all this anxiety.  Might also be worth talking to the nurses in the crc helpline who mAy be able to answer (generally) any more medically focused concerns.  Also extra help with childcare if that's available to you

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