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Struggling - girlfriend has stage 4 cancer and has cut all contact

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My girlfriend was diagnosed with stage 4 bladder cancer . I moved in with her I was there for her and out the blue she kicked me out we haven't spoken I nearly 4 weeks I've tried to reach out but my attempts are ignored and I just don't no what to think I love so much 

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    While I was awaiting my surgery my friend was coping with the new diagnosis that her mum has terminal cancer.. her mum refused any contact.. she didn't want to speak to them or see them.. they had to just sit an wait for weeks and even now I don't think the cancer is a topic of any conversation.. 

    Its got to be tough to process and for a lot of people it's natural to want to protect those closest to you, unfortunately that could mean pushing them away.  Don't give up she may just need the time and space..  

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    While I was awaiting my surgery my friend was coping with the new diagnosis that her mum has terminal cancer.. her mum refused any contact.. she didn't want to speak to them or see them.. they had to just sit an wait for weeks and even now I don't think the cancer is a topic of any conversation.. 

    Its got to be tough to process and for a lot of people it's natural to want to protect those closest to you, unfortunately that could mean pushing them away.  Don't give up she may just need the time and space..  

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