Welcome to the forum, Volvic.

I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. It’s completely understandable to feel worried, especially with the news about the cancer spreading and the lifelong treatment plan.

Regarding the breast cancer gene and your daughters needing to be tested, we have some information about genetic testing for cancer on our website 

Connecting with others who are in a similar situation can also be very beneficial and I hope that you'll find the support you seek among us. In the meantime, if you think that asking questions to someone with a medical background might help, our team of nurses can be reached on this number 0808 800 4040 Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m.

Wishing you and your family all the best,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator