How to cope with the anxiety of melanoma coming back

I’ve just had a stage 1a melanoma (0.4mm) removed from my arm and am awaiting a wide local excision soon. I am trying to be positive that it has gone and hopefully won’t be back, but I struggle to sleep at night and worry that I might not notice if it comes back. How often do you check everywhere and how do you check your lymph nodes? I am trying to enjoy each day, but it is hard not to worry - I have a teenage daughter and I’m desperate to stay around long enough to see her through her schooling, at least. Any advice on coping with recurrence anxiety welcome. 

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  • Hi Collie-mum, I would seek advice from your team with regard to self-checking. How you should do it as well as the frequency.
    Recurrence anxiety is something we all have to live with. It is very unpleasant. But it does get easier over time.
    Maybe ask your team to give you a prognosis? I'm not a medic but believe it will be excellent. Hearing this will mean you will worry a lot less.
    Wishing you all the best. x Harry

  • Thanks for the advice Harry. Really appreciate you taking the time to reply, and thank you for being positive. Best wishes to you too. x

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