Bladder cancer

My partner was diagnosed with bladder cancer a few weeks ago. He’s had 2 procedures to remove tissue, a CT scan and 2 chemo washes of the bladder. He has now been told that it hasn’t spread but he should consider removal of the bladder as they can’t say how bad it is. We can’t understand why they can’t say what grade/stage it is and why such drastic intervention at this stage. My sister had bladder cancer, the tissue was removed and now she just has regular checks so I assumed this is what would happen to my partner. It’s the same hospital team too. He now has another meeting to discuss if he wants to go ahead with removal of the bladder but should he refuse at this stage? We don’t know what all this means. 

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  • Hi Suze02 and welcome to Cancer Chat.

    I'm sorry to hear your partner was recently diagnosed with bladder cancer and for the lack of information the doctors have been able to provide about his diagnosis. This must be very upsetting, and frustrating, especially when he has to decide whether to go ahead with the bladder removal.

    I really do hope you receive some support and advice from our members soon but if you or your partner would like to talk things through with one of our cancer nurses, you can do so on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. They will do all they can to answer your questions and help shed some light on his situation.

    I'm not sure if you have come across Fight Bladder Cancer before, but they are a bladder cancer charity run by bladder cancer survivors and their families. They will definitely understand what you're going through at the moment, so don't hesitate to reach out to them at this difficult time.

    We're thinking of you Suze and sending all our support your way.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hi Suze02 and welcome to Cancer Chat.

    I'm sorry to hear your partner was recently diagnosed with bladder cancer and for the lack of information the doctors have been able to provide about his diagnosis. This must be very upsetting, and frustrating, especially when he has to decide whether to go ahead with the bladder removal.

    I really do hope you receive some support and advice from our members soon but if you or your partner would like to talk things through with one of our cancer nurses, you can do so on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. They will do all they can to answer your questions and help shed some light on his situation.

    I'm not sure if you have come across Fight Bladder Cancer before, but they are a bladder cancer charity run by bladder cancer survivors and their families. They will definitely understand what you're going through at the moment, so don't hesitate to reach out to them at this difficult time.

    We're thinking of you Suze and sending all our support your way.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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