Does anyone have any experience of stage 1b Melanomas spreading to other parts of the body?

Two years ago both my brother and I had melanomas, his was assessed as Stage 2 and mine was at stage 1b, and we both had lymph nodes tested.  We both received the ‘all clear’. 

Am very sad to say my brother had a fall and they did a routine scan of his head, and found lesions on the brain and the cancer has spread.  Apparently it spread through the blood. He is now receiving palliative care and has very little time left.

This really concerned me so I made contact with my specialist, who said it is highly unlikely that my cancer had spread and wouldn’t recommend a scan, just to keep an eye on my skin.   My question:  Is this just another form of cost cutting? Does anyone else have experience or knowledge of stage 1b melanomas travelling to other parts of the body and not to the lymph nodes?  Am wondering whether to ask for a second opinion and request a scan.  

Any knowledge or experience most welcome.  

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  • Hi Liz2024,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm sorry to hear of the situation with your brother, and I can understand your concerns and questions.

    You are always entitled to a second opinion, so you could certainly explore this if you would like to.

    You are also welcome to talk things through with our nurses - either by posting in the 'Ask the Nurses' section of this forum, or by calling freephone 0808 800 4040 (Monday-Friday, 9-5), if you would like to speak to one of the nurses.

    Otherwise, if others here have anything in particular to add then hopefully you'll get some more replies soon.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hi Liz2024,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm sorry to hear of the situation with your brother, and I can understand your concerns and questions.

    You are always entitled to a second opinion, so you could certainly explore this if you would like to.

    You are also welcome to talk things through with our nurses - either by posting in the 'Ask the Nurses' section of this forum, or by calling freephone 0808 800 4040 (Monday-Friday, 9-5), if you would like to speak to one of the nurses.

    Otherwise, if others here have anything in particular to add then hopefully you'll get some more replies soon.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator

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