Hi thanks for asking the question Im interested in knowing this too as I will be facing this myself soon.  A week today since my mastectomy, still feels surreal sometimes.

I feel very detached from it all, - I had my surgery results this week and thankfully I had a full response to chemotherapy but it doesn't feel real looking back it feels like someone else going through it. - good luck with rest of treatment. 

I’m through the other side and I still can’t believe it. It is so shocking I think it takes a long time to come to terms with it. I joined a small local breast cancer group and everyone had felt the same so I think that is very normal. Give yourself some time especially as you are still in treatment xx

I feel like this too, still can’t believe this is happening, never in my wildest dreams did I think this would happen to me!  Not sure why now tho when I see how many people are affected by cancer think your more likely to get it at some point than not..  guess I was living in a naive bubble.   I never noticed the cancer adverts etc really but now they seem to be on every 5 minutes!!!

BecB thank you for the moisturiser tip too, anything I can do to make this less painful the better  x

It's nice to know we are all feeling the same "normal" feelings. 

Like you I couldn't believe it was me, and had never seen so many ads for cancer before my diagnosis. Once you have it, it's like a secret door opens and become surrounded by so many who have or are going through it and totally consumes you through treatment phase. - everyone is so generous with their advice and sharing experiences, have been so grateful. 

Good luck with rest of treatment .

Yes your right, I felt very alone at the beginning but talking to other women in the waiting room for appointments made me feel less alone and realised how many women are going through the same journey.

Think we all understand how scary and *** this is, if we can help each other get through it in anyway it helps .

Good luck to you too xx

Yes your right, I felt very alone at the beginning but talking to other women in the waiting room for appointments made me feel less alone and realised how many women are going through the same journey.

Think we all understand how scary and *** this is, if we can help each other get through it in anyway it helps .

Good luck to you too xx