Welcome to our forum, Phsjan.

I'm sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing at the moment. It's understandable that you're feeling a tremendous amount of emotional strain with your health, relationship, and employment all being major sources of stress.

Firstly, it's important to prioritize your well-being during this difficult time. It may be a good idea to reach out to close friends or family members, who can provide emotional support and a listening ear. Consider seeking professional help from therapists or counsellors who specialize in dealing with life transitions, relationship issues, and coping with health challenges.

Regarding divorce proceedings, seeking legal advice from a professional who can provide guidance tailored to your specific situation might be a good idea.

As you face redundancy after 13 years of service, consider exploring your rights and options regarding severance packages, financial support, or potential reemployment opportunities. Talking with an employment lawyer or getting advice from a local employment agency may help, too.

Remember to take things one step at a time and be kind to yourself during this challenging period.

Sending positive vibes your way as you navigate through these uncertainties.

All the best,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hello

i am so sorry you are going through a difficult time, you have to be strong even though at times it feels so difficult.I say this because this is the advice I am being given at the moment because of my struggles, sending a hug and life will move on and get better, this difficult time will make you stronger.