How to cope

Hi, My dad has been diganosed with bowel cancer. He has had 2 rounds of chemo and has struggled. He is due major surgery soon and will be in hospital for a while. I have struggled to see him like this and has been hard. However recently i have felt more stressed, anxious and guilty. I am now having sleepless nights. I dont wantt to go out with my friends as muych as feel i need to be with hime. I feel gulity whem talking to my mum as i dont want to keep putting my worry onto her as she is stressed and worried as it is. Wondered if anyone has any suggestions with how to cope ? Thank you

  • Hi Lottie, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad and the effect on you and your mum. I don't really know how I can help, but you could call the Macmillan support line tel:0808 808 00 00. I have used them myself several times and they are really supportive and can point you to other sources of help. I hope they can help you through this difficult time. I'm sure others will see your post and reply too. Take care for now. Amy xx