Facial disfigurement after surgery

Anybody here living with facial disfigurement after surgery for cancer?

How do you deal with it?

The feeling of embarrasment (and sometimes disgust) about how I look now. People who stare then quickly turn away once their curiosity has been satisfied. Perhaps this is all just in my head.

I have curtailed my social life and do not like going out to crowded places and do chores like supermarket shopping at night when it is quiet.

Can anyone point me to any good sources of information on the subject.

Both from a psychological angle and the physical angle perhaps somehow covering up or masking the area.

  • Hi Beepa

    Thank you for taking the time to reply and the link to Macmillan forum.

    Ive been able to look in the mirror this week but am having difficulty coming to terms with the new disfigurement.

    There were some good suggestions given to the OP sigurd from thoughtful contributors and I will try out a few of their ideas.

    Ed