Hi,

just after anyones thoughts or experiences if they've gone through anything like I'm going through.

I've secondary breast cancer which I've had for 3 years, im married 3 young kids. My wife recently said she's doesn't feel or love me that way anymore and for the past month I've moved back with my parents.

we've a complicated life with raising the kids and living with my illness which at the moment is doing fine. She's I think tired of the traumas and dramas and the toll cancer has took on me as a person.

I'm obviously heartbroken and face the possibility of living alone in the time I have left with no desire to move on as I still love her and can't in reality think of a positive outcome should this separation never resolve.

has anyone else's partner decided to leave after going through a secondary diagnosis, how did they cope?

thanks in advance

dan