Hello Georgie3

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling worried and self-conscious following your recent mastectomy and breast reconstruction. 

Three weeks really is still very early days in the healing process and it's likely that you will still have some swelling from the surgery. 

Do you have a post-surgery appointment arranged with the breast team? If not,m and you're still feeling anxious about things, then do give your Breast care nurse a call. I'm sure they will be happy to offer some support and reassurance and arrange to get you into the clinic if they feel it's necessary. 

Undoubtedly you've been through a lot both physically and emotionally since your diagnosis. It's natural to want things to be as good as they can as quickly as they can but be kind to yourself Georgie. Take things a day at a time. It's important that you give yourself the time and space to heal properly and hopefully it won't be too much longer till you feel happier with the results. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator