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Very bad receptionist experiences. Has anyone else had this?

recptioinsts are the first people a patient sees or speaks to so they should have empathy understanding and compassion. A normal healthy person will become vulunerable and even scared, down and low when ill.  So when a recptionist is rude or insists a patient goes home and rings through for an appointment between 8 and 10 knowing full well it is almost impossible to get through  between those time, especially if the patient has children of school age and are rushing around while being sick or struggling to breathe or suffering with other symptoms. It would not hurt for the receptionist to offer some support instead of overstressing their rules that can never be broken in a very rude way.  A very vulnerable patient could be pushed over the top, I take it that the recptionists are not allowed to read a patients notes, so have no idea of ongoing symptoms, so in that case should be considerate and kind.  if they feel the urge to snap and be rude then maybe they should consider a career change.  If a shop assistant is rude to a customer they would be dicsaplined

I have been reduced to tears by recptionists.  I had tried to get appointments in every way possible when I had rectual fistula for 2 weeks and in the end paid to go private where I was diagnosed   with anal cancer and then on going back to the surgery for support and understanding I was banned ftom the sugery.  My mother was riddled with cancer when she died, for five years my timid mother refused to book an appointment as she felt intimidated by the receptionists. She suffered in silence. When we tried to get her to see a doctor she would get so upset and said she could not face talking to the receptionists because they were so rude   She felt she was making a fuss over nothing.  She came from the age when people had the upmost respect for doctors and should never cause a scene or make a fuss.  When will it be taken seriously that these doctor receptionists  are rude and should go on a course on how to talk to patients.  They only need the basic office skills to become a receptionist.  They should need a qualification in health care   

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  • Hello BBBOOP

    I'm so sorry to hear not only about your experiences at your GP surgery but also about your Mum and your own recent diagnosis. It sounds like it's been an incredibly difficult time for you. 

    You don't mention in your post if you've ever raised your complaints in a formal capacity. Sometimes it can be daunting to do this but in order to try and make changes sometimes, we need to make these formal steps. 

    Making complaints differs slightly across the four home nations so I'm going to give you this link to the NHS website which has information about how to make a complaint about GP services in England. If you live in one of the other home nations please do let me know and I'll send you the appropriate link. 

    I do hope that your new GP surgery, and the hospital team responsible for treating your cancer, are helping you to feel supported and well cared for. If you'd like to talk to one of our team of nurses about your diagnosis then you're most welcome to call them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

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  • Hello BBBOOP

    I'm so sorry to hear not only about your experiences at your GP surgery but also about your Mum and your own recent diagnosis. It sounds like it's been an incredibly difficult time for you. 

    You don't mention in your post if you've ever raised your complaints in a formal capacity. Sometimes it can be daunting to do this but in order to try and make changes sometimes, we need to make these formal steps. 

    Making complaints differs slightly across the four home nations so I'm going to give you this link to the NHS website which has information about how to make a complaint about GP services in England. If you live in one of the other home nations please do let me know and I'll send you the appropriate link. 

    I do hope that your new GP surgery, and the hospital team responsible for treating your cancer, are helping you to feel supported and well cared for. If you'd like to talk to one of our team of nurses about your diagnosis then you're most welcome to call them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

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