Hi Botwinkle, I felt I had to reply to you and say "good for you!" As for when you tell someone about your BC, I would say go with the flow. Your instinct will tell you when it is the right time to tell your date about your illness. And no, you are definitely not wrong to want to live your life. In fact, if there is one thing that having cancer has taught me it is this: Live EVERY moment like it is your last. Good luck mate, Violet, x
