Im waiting on breast biopsy results, i get them on monday, the waiting is just dreadful, sometimes your gut feeling tells you what you know but this time i just dont know! Anyone feel or felt the same?
A very warm welcome to our forum. I have had 2 bouts of breast cancer in the past 12 years, plus a few false alarms, so I have been through a number of biopsies. All I can say, is that the wait never gets any easier. Most of us would say that this is one of the worst parts of our cancer journey, as thereare so many unknowns and uncertainties.
I am glad to hear that you don't have much longer to wait. Try to keep yourself occupied with other distractions to help the time to pass a little quicker over the weekend.
Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.
Hi just joined this site reading different comments such an agonising wait for results I'm awaiting my appointment to see if my treatment has worked you feel so lonely at this moment hope all works out for you hang on in there my love thoughts are with you
I eventually got through to BCN she tried her best to get me some information but the consultant and his secretary had gone home, but an appointment has now been made for Monday at 1.45 so that's a relief!
I hope you're okay too I'll be with you in spirit tomorrow, sending you love as well as courage to face what you have to.
In your own time let me know what happens or I won't be able to sleep!!!
Well done Lisa, at least you know the BCN was working on your behalf. Monday isn't too long to wait. Thank you, I've still got a headache, hoping I can control it today, thought it was the stress, but need to look at whether it could be a side effect of the codeine x I'll update you later, that's so lovely, thank you Lisa ️ ️ ️Xx
I've just received a call from my breast nurse and everything is absolutely fine, no atypia or malignancy just fibrous changes with sclerosing and complex growth all benign and I'm being discharged.
I'm very happy but it hasn't matched my brain yet.
I'm quite list for words and going to see my mother for a big hug.
I'll stay on here, this experience has affected me and I want to be with you all as you go through the next challenging stages.
I am so grateful to each and everyone fir showing love ad support through the darkest of times
I can't believe it Karen, my husband wrote it all down as my head and heart went in another direction!
I've got a complex sclerosing lesion that mimics cancer so they had to do more biopsies and a fibrocystic adenoma, I can't believe it!
Thank you so muvh for starting this thread, if it wasn't for you doing that I don't think I would've got through or functioned at all. You began this and it's overwhelming how we've all been raw and honest about our journey. So thank you so much
Awww i am so overwhelmed, that is such a lovely thing to say, ive been really low since Monday, ive been messaging jolamine yous have had so much on your plates too, i really thought you had a radial scar, because everything that you said was the same as what i was told, that rhe mammogram mimics a cancer, and the biopsies sounded the same as mine, its a journey and a half thats for sure! I am so pleased everything has turned out to be great news you must be overjoyed! At the sane time its all such a shock to the system! But everyone is amazing on this page, so many brave women, so many different stories but all so supportive to each other, for some reason at the moment im just an irritated moaning b**** lol but that has made my day what you said thank you so much
Hi Mickey, I hope you're okay.- the build up takes it out of you, been thinking about you all day today,, when you're ready and everything sinks in please let me know how it all went
Thank you Karen and I totally understand you have been feeling low this week. As we said two months ago, it's a bloomin rollercoaster and we can't be at the top of it all of the time, no matter how we try, it has to keep dipping, that's the nature of the journey, so please don't feel you need to withdraw then - we should pull together no matter where we are on the rollercoaster xx love Mickey ️ ️
I hope you are ok, what a complete and utter dick of a man having an attitude! What actually happened to nice bedside manners, for a woman this is such an invasive and personal journey that we have been going through for months and to be spoken to like a piece of s*** like lisa also makes me sad too! Glad you spoke to your nurse who gave you a bit of reassurance and you have all us who treat you the way you deserve to be treated, I dont know what i would have done without you girls the last few weeks, you are all such inspirations and the most amazing women who i wish i actually personally knew, the nice thing i feel like i know you all
And on the happy note for a Saturday morning i thought id just share the news even though im feeling a bit s*** im going to make yous all jealous im going to see marti pellow tonight think i should chuck him my post surgery bra tonight? a change for him than frilly knickers eh lol
If you're ever in the North West get in touch with me, I too feel you are all women I wish I knew and you can message me anytime, I'll be with you all as you plough through this.
Now you get out there tonight Karen and enjoy yourself to the fullest, have a lovely time it will help you refresh and recharge after what you've gone through.
Love Lisa
P.s feel we all want to throttle him for what he's said to Mickey
Thanks Karen for your lovely message. As I just said to Lisa, I'm having a rollercoaster dip today, it will pass.
I'm so glad that you have a great night out planned tonight, just what you need and oh yes, it would be amazing to throw that post surgery bra - go for it xx ️ ️Love n hugs Mickey xx
Yes the choice of a white or pink bra god he will be so turned on eh haha the rollercoaster dip is rubbish ive had plenty of them this week, last night i had a few violet gins and had the 80s on oh to be 17,18 again not a worry in the world eh! Its an expetience we wont forget thats for sure, something you think will ever happen to yourself just dreadful,;since the op on monday the dressing ive to keep on till i see the surgeon for the follow up on the 30th, the blood and bruising i hate looking at it,
be good for us all to meet up where ever we are, you are girls I'll never forget! Everyones stories are different but similar but we all feel the same, family and friends are supportive but only you girls know how each of us feel, and its a feeling you can't describe to anyone outwith our little group, its a low sinking feeling some days that you can't shake, very isolating at times, its in the back of your mind all the time, just want to wake up one morning and not have that black cloud feeling i pray on the 30th that he says no cancerous cells and no more surgery, nearly out of the woods but not quite, but I'll agree with all the girls the waiting is the worst part but we get through it, the strength comes from somewhere
