Im waiting on breast biopsy results, i get them on monday, the waiting is just dreadful, sometimes your gut feeling tells you what you know but this time i just dont know! Anyone feel or felt the same?
Im waiting on breast biopsy results, i get them on monday, the waiting is just dreadful, sometimes your gut feeling tells you what you know but this time i just dont know! Anyone feel or felt the same?
Hi Karenk,
A very warm welcome to our forum. I have had 2 bouts of breast cancer in the past 12 years, plus a few false alarms, so I have been through a number of biopsies. All I can say, is that the wait never gets any easier. Most of us would say that this is one of the worst parts of our cancer journey, as thereare so many unknowns and uncertainties.
I am glad to hear that you don't have much longer to wait. Try to keep yourself occupied with other distractions to help the time to pass a little quicker over the weekend.
Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.
Kind regards,
Jolamine xx
Hi just joined this site reading different comments such an agonising wait for results I'm awaiting my appointment to see if my treatment has worked you feel so lonely at this moment hope all works out for you hang on in there my love thoughts are with you
Hi Nikki
Really sorry you're having to face this, after my sisters chemo (bowel cancer) we tried to do something afterwards, although we were somehow detached and in a daze we look back now with really lovely memories, like when we chose to go for a walk but got chased by a cow and had to hide in a bush until it sauntered off (a good half hour) it was doing something that was good for her after something that was difficult, but it did take a few attempts!
I had my Core Biopsy same day as yours, still sore, but now it's only at night, feel like I'm wazzing a bowling ball across when I turn over, the pain just catches my breath at times, I was advised that it takes 8 weeks to fully heal.
I've purchased a couple of M&S sleep bras, recommended by my friend who had BC I've found they really help. She was 32 when she discovered a lump, it turned out to be invasive triple negative breast cancer, that was in 2014, she's fine now and she's had all clear scans since
Take one day at a time, be gentle with yourself, if you ever need to offload I'm here and we are all here to support you
Sending you a warm hug
Love Lisa xxx
Thanks Nikki, I hope you don't have to wait too long for the CT scan and it doesn't hold you back starting the chemo. Have they given you any indication of timescales for this starting? I'm just trying to get through to next consultant apt when I hope I will then have a clear picture of my treatment. It's all just a waiting game. Hugs Mickey x
Hi June,
How did you check up with the consultant go on 20th? Did he have any advice about your hormone tablets and what about your treatment plan?
I hope that you're less sore now and coping better.
Kind regards,
Jolamine xx
Hello Ladies
I hope you don't mind me invading the chat , I've been reading through and you all seem so lovely. I was recalled to the breast clinic on 15th October after my 1st mammogram and ended up having 3 core biopsies and a vacuum biopsy. I've been referred directly to my local hospital who are seemingly having a meeting about me tomorrow and will then contact me. I felt I was doing fine with it all until I had a total meltdown yesterday & today hasn't been too much better. My friends & work have been great but i just feel a bit like they don't get it.
Hi Val, I'm sorry to hear this, I didn't get recalled after a mammogram as I found a lump first, but my mammogram showed microcalcifications and so like you I had a core biopsy (but on the lump) and four weeks later a steriotactic vacuum assist biopsies under mammogram, for which I'm still waiting the results from those latest ones. We will all totally understand the emotions you are feeling, it's such a rollercoaster. Have they said how and when they will contact you after the meeting tomorrow? Thinking of you and here with any support you need - hugs Mickey x
Hi Mickey
Thank you so much for replying & your lovely comments, it's nice to be speaking to people that are in this situation so I know they get it. The consultant at the breast clinic took my contact number however she said that the hostel would either call or write to me. Its the waiting that's the difficult part. I feel like I just want to get on with it , whatever it may be. I know my friend & family try to understand but I also know they struggle with what to say half the time.
Val xx
Hi Val,
Youre more than welcome, that waiting is sooo difficult. In my case I do know it's cancer now, but I don't know the full extent yet. I know I really struggled waiting for the first set of results. Originally my consultant said he wouldn't tell me anything until they had them all and that was going to be circa six weeks. However, when the lump results came back positive they wrote to me with a breast surgery clinic apt, which at the time knocked me for six. All the support on this site has helped me better manage the anxiety and know we're not alone in this journey, no matter how different our results may be.
I totally get what you mean, I've had to learn to better manage their feelings, as it is so hard for them too and we all do this in different ways x
I hope you don't have to wait too long and keep posting if it helps you. Hugs Mickey xx
Hi Val,
A very warm welcome to our forum.
Try not to worry. More people get called back after their first mammogram than after any other. This is because the radiologists don't have anything to compare your images to. The MDT (multidisciplinary team) meeting is a routine meeting held by your consultant to discuss the results of all the scans and biopsies prior to giving you your results and care plan if needed.
Unfortunately, the way you felt yesterday and today is all part and parcel of this waiting process. It is not at all unusual to find yourself an emotional wreck. Many of us find ourselves crying and very short tempered. Crying is not a bad thing, as it is a great stress reliever. Irrespective of which way your results go, you will find it easier to cope once you know what you are up against
I do hope that you will hear soon after tomorrow's meeting, as the unknown is a scary place to be. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.
Kind regards,
Jolmine xx
Hello Jolmine
Thank you so much for your lovely words. I will definitely update you all as soon as I have had my results back
Val xx
Hi Val
It's an absolute shock to the system, I've had that many meltdowns I could write a novel about them!
My MDT meeting was finally done today and I will receive my results from the seven core biopsies tomorrow, I've had them delayed for over a week due to a backlog in pathology, the wait is terrible.
I wish you all the best for tomorrow, please let me know what happens.
Will be thinking of you
Take care
Love Lisa xxx
Hi Val
It's an absolute shock to the system, I've had that many meltdowns I could write a novel about them!
My MDT meeting was finally done today and I will receive my results from the seven core biopsies tomorrow, I've had them delayed for over a week due to a backlog in pathology, the wait is terrible.
I wish you all the best for tomorrow, please let me know what happens.
Will be thinking of you
Take care
Love Lisa xxx
Hi Lisa,
I hope that you finally get your results tomorrow.
Wishing you all the best.
Jolamine xx
Hi Lisa
Thank you for your kind words. I hope you get your results today. Let me know how you get on.
Will be thinking about you too
Val xx
Will be thinking of you today Lisa xx
Finally results are in...
The pathology report came back all the biopsies were clear, fibrous changes, possibly radial scar, it's non atypia (Whatever that means)
However, even though it was graded a b2 the radiologist mentioned the results didn't match the mammogram finding so I'm having a Vacuum Assisted Biopsy next week.
I do feel relieved but it's not matching my brain yet, I'm a bit confused!
Can anyone tell me if this is positive because I've got family thinking that's it move on now - but I'm unsure wth having to have another VAB.
What is the VAB after pain like, is it same as Core Biopsy?
Thank you all so much, the support you've given I will never forget it, I will be forever grateful to you all
Thank you so much Mickey
Hi Lisa, pleased the original biopsies came back clear. Do you know if the vacuum assist biopsies will be under mammogram or ultrasound. Mine was under mammogram but others have been under ultrasound. They basically set you up and vacuum out tissue or in my case microcalcifications so they can check those out also. I hope that helps. They are being thorough, I still had to have it even though they knew I had cancer, so is a positive they are being thorough I think. Yes, it's more of a wait though, sorry! Any idea on timescales? Thinking of you Mickey xx
Hi Mickey
I had the Core Biopsy in the Mammogram machine, the breast nurse who rang me didn't know if it was the same but said she's going to post some info on it, I think because mine is still tender I'm trying to gage if it's worse or not.
But last night I did manage to turn over without much discomfort for the first time.
The VAB machine is broke at the moment but she also mentioned I'm not urgent so I'll get a call for an appointment some time this week.
How are you coping Mickey? Any news on your treatment plan yet?
Hey!
Lisa, so pleased your biopsies were clear and glad you will get extra reassurance from the vacuum biopsy. Good luck with that xx
diagnosed ladies, I have a CT scan on Monday and my anxiety is through the roof convincing myself they will find it elsewhere. Is this normal, I am literally writing myself off.
Hope you are all well?
Nikki
Hi Lisa,
They did go in on a different part of my breast for the vacuum assist, but trying to stay still under mammogram (as clearly you know from core biopsies) is not easy. I have arm and shoulder pain obviously from where I was holding so tight trying not to move. I know people have different pain thresholds, but I must admit both my consultant and BCN warned me these would be worse. The pain itself was no worse, just the trying to stay still for so long I struggled with. It seems to have put bruising back to original core biopsy site now as well, but I guess it's healing - it is still tender, but five weeks and a bit since core biopsies and two weeks tomorrow since the vacuum ones x you'll be fine, it's always harder, I think, when you know what to expect second time - emotions again!!
I'm no further forward yet, but thanks for asking. Hopefully after this Thursdays MDT or at my next consultant apt next Wed 3/11, I will know more xx
take care Lisa, hopefully you won't have to wait too long xx
Hey Nikki,
I can only speak for myself, but as you know I'm still waiting for next steps and still very anxious with that sick feeling and not sleeping. Trying to stay positive and keep focussed, but it's hard when you're always wondering 'what will it be next', hopefully nothing I keep telling myself, just one step closer to getting treatment started and getting rid of cancer xx virtual hugs Mickey xx