What a rubbish year :( life can be cruel

It's heartbreaking enough to find out 1 parent has cancer at the beginning of the year and now newly diagnosed the second has. 
 

my mum was diagnosed with grade 2 breast cancer which is being managed still at the moment early this year and now my father has stomach cancer which the stage is unknown at the moment. Seeing my mum to start slowly getting some normality back and some weight back on my father is now in that phase of being soo skinny it's scary. Both before 60 :( plus they are not together   

 

I don't normally go to forums for a chat or advice or help. Just to know we are not alone.