Hi Tet21,

Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm very sorry to hear of everything you've been through recently - it sounds like a lot.

It's a shame that your husband is getting irritable with you, although that can unfortunately be quite common and treatment sometimes causes people to act in ways they wouldn't otherwise.

I'm sure you're doing a great job in terms of your support to him, but do also make sure you're looking after yourself too. This may mean speaking to others, focusing on things you enjoy as much as possible, or taking some small moments away to yourself.

Organisations such as Macmillan and Maggie's can also offer resources and support.

I hope this forum can be a support to you as well - it's a safe space to write things down and to reach out to others who understand. I'm sure there will be others here with some similar experience, so hopefully you'll receive further replies soon.

Take care and wishing you all the best,

Ben
Cancer Chat Moderator