Good morning, I am still in my bed and checking the posts o  this forum.  Really sorry to hear of your predicament with both your parents but especially your mum.  Seems to me you will need good support to talk things through.  Perhaps there  already is social work involvement in relation to your father?  I tend to think, irrespective, it would be worth drawing your parents' situation to their attention.  Just take your thoughts and feelings on a daily basis and try to address x