Just found out Dad has terminal cancerous brain infection

Just found out today that my dad is terminal. Has a cancerous brain infection. Been told without treatment he will have 6-9 months max with treatment maybe 12-18. He has decided to have treatment but either way I'm not ready to lose him. He told me today and I just closed off just wanted to run away. Is there something wrong with me that I wanted to get away from him. My head is all in a jumble.

  • Hello Littlefred

    I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad's diagnosis. It's obviously an incredibly difficult time for you all and to know that even with treatment your Dad's time is limited must be devastating. 

    I wanted to try and connect you with another member who posted this week [@Seagcroft92]‍. Their Dad has also been told they have a brain tumour that can not be cured. You might want to have a look at their post here and maybe reply to them. I'm sure it would be helpful to you both to chat with someone who is going through a similar experience. 

    If you want to speak to our team of nurses about things at any point you're most welcome to give them a call. I'm sure they will try to give you any information that they can and offer some advice and support. They're available Monday to Friday from 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator