Found a lump in mg breast and I am past myself

Hi there . I found a lump in my breast over 3 weeks ago . I went straight to the doctors who referred me straight away before he even examined me as I  was over 35 . He confirmed that I had a lump and that I would go on the 2 week fast track . This was on the 29th March . I've  just got my appointment through but its not until the 22nd April . I'm absolutely passed myself . Ive only told my boyfriend and my boss at work as all  I seem to do when I mention it is cry.  I have 2 teenage daughters who I havent told and just trying to carry on as best I can with life in general . I find myself just randomly bursting into tears and just thinking the worst all day every day . Its just constantly on my mind and the odd day just seems a struggle and so worried what might be round the corner . 

It's good to read other peoples posts on here to know that I'm not alone in my fears . 

  • Hello I joined today because someone I know is dying of pancreatic cancer. I have had a lump previously (I am 37) it was a cyst luckily. Just to say thinking of you, good luck and you're not alone xx the worry is the worst part. I couldn't eat for like two weeks :( be kind to yourself x

  • Hello @Kathryn77 

     ​​​​​​​I'm sorry to hear you are in the same position as me

     I have a lump in my breast and issue with my nipple and have a clinic appointment on Saturday. I am so scared and driving myself mad with worry. I have only told my husband and am trying to appear 'normal' to everyone else including my young son.

    Thinking of you  I know the waiting is hard.

    Lou

     

  • Sorry to here about your friend who has pancreatic cancer.   My dad had the same cancer and passed a few years ago x so if any questions please do not hesitate to ask xxx 

     

     

     

    I too have been given a date 23rd May.  I can't wait that long so managed to book private for next week 

  • Thank you @Tara67 my appt lasted about 2 hours, the nurses were all very reassuring and kind. There was no sign of anything sinister but they said I had thickening of the breast tissue behind my nipple which they are putting down to hormones but are keeping an eye on it and if it gets worse or a rash appears I should go back. I am relieved  I didnt get bad news which I expected but no real conclusion either and I guess I will just have to put up with a sore itchy boob for now and blame my crazy hormones!

    Good luck for next week, let me know how you get on.

  • At least your worries are now put behind you x that's great news.  Did they mention what your lump Was x.   Oh so hormones causing the nipple pain?   My nipple is super super itchy and sensative today.  I think im Over looking at my boobs now looking for any lump or bump.  But boob is definitely swollen though.        At least you have been checked. Im

    so happy for you x yes I'll let you know.  Friday can't come quick enough now x 

  • The lump was thickening of tissue apparently, my nipple is quite swollen now  and still getting tenderness and itch daily but guess it's all down to my age, perimenopause however long that will last! Continually looking at my boob and google didnt do me much good really and worried me more. I hope for something similar for you x

  • I can't seem to come away from Google. Having a really bad emotional day today. I've noticed some dimpling. Like a line running through my areole area.  So Google now has completely scared me.   I have so many symptoms now I'm totoallu convinced and I can't even look at my children or my husband without bursting into tears.  I'm really at wits end. And have no idea how I'm even going to cope with the news. 

  • I was noticing every small change too and started having night sweats so convinced myself of something being very wrong. I know you will not feel any peace until you have been checked at the clinic but if your feelings get unbearable it might be good to speak to one of the nurses on the helpline here to talk things through. X