5 years ago my sister was diagnosed with breast cancer, she had the breast removed and then had a course of chemo and radio therapy. When she was diagnosed they said that there was a shadow on her kidney but they didn't seem worried and thought it was probably a cyst. 2 years on and it transpired that the shadow wasn't a cyst but cancer and she had to have a Kidney removed unfortunately it had spread into the base tissue.  She has since been on another drug regime to stop it from spreading but this has now stopped working and it has spread to her lungs and lymph nodes and has been told that they will try another drug regime but this will probaly only give her another 1 to 2 years, I am devastated! She is one of the most selfless, caring, wonderful and positive people I know and I amazed at her mental attitude that she is continuing to fight and not give up, my question is how can I support her more during this difficult time. She lives in Leicester and I live in Cornwall so we are miles apart, we speak on the telephone all the time but I just wonder if there is anything else I can do?