Hello

My dad was diagnosed with lung cancer in August at the age of 87. He refused to have a sy to see what type of cancer it is, and turned down palliative radiotherapy. He lives on his own, and has refused the offers of help from Macmillan nurses or any other health professionals. He has started letting himself go, and now sleeps most of the day. His appetite is decreasing and he doesn't drink as much as he should. He is terrified of getting covid, so only allows me inside his cottage. To be honest, I really don't know what to expect. At the time of his diagnosis, the doctor gave him a few months, but I have no idea what signs to look out for when he is nearing the end. I love my dad, and am so scared, having lost my mum suddenly 5 years ago. 

  • Hello Tbird63

    I'm sorry to hear about your Dad's diagnosis and that things have deteriorated over the past few months. It's understandable that you're feeling worried. 

    I'd suggest giving your Dad's GP a call in the first instance and expressing your concerns. They may be able to offer some advice and support for you and maybe your Dad if he is willing to talk with them. 

    It's obviously a difficult situation for you both and I do hope that you're able to find some resolution to improve things. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator