Hi I’m new to this site, 

firstly I’d like to say I’m assisting in looking after my dad who has a very rare mucosal melenoma on he’s face, it is in operable but so far the treatment hasn’t been to bad for him, he’s had radiotherapy and has now started immunotherapy, he’s second treatment is due back end of January, he’s in good spirits and doing quite well considering, 

the concern I actually have is nothing to do with my dad but my husband, he’s had a lump quite big in he’s neck just under he’s ear on the right side, this has been going on for around 9/10 months now, he’s lost around 2 stone in weight he’s a small man anyway so can’t really afford to lose weight, he went to he’s GP back in March -April GP did bloods etc they all came back normal, the lump has got a little bigger but he’s scared of going to the hospital to seek medical attention which is really hard for me atm due to currant circumstances, he keeps putting he’s fingers on the back of he’s ear as he says he has like a pressure sort of sensation which is uncomfortable, He’s also popping Paracetemol like smarties, I’m hoping someone on here might have any ideas on what it could be, oh GP gave him a corse of antibiotics back in June which didn’t do a thing ...