Diagnosed with breast cancer

Hi , 

So after a whirlwind couple of weeks, I went for my biopsy results today. I have to have a mri now and then will get a treatment plan. The ultrasound and mammogram show the lump as two different sizes hence the need for the mri. 

I'm only 32 and its very overwhelming, I'd convinced myself in the waiting room there was no way it could be the big c. I dont know how to feel, thankfully its only primary but funnily enough this doest make me feel any better. :( 

I'd love to chat to anyone going through the same thing hence why I'm here. 

 

  • Hi Gina 

    sorry to hear of your diagnosis 

    Two of my friends have been through breast cancer within the last 12 months abs are doing really well 

    sending you hugs 

    I've been referred to my local breast clinic due to finding a lump in my left breast on Saturday 

    I feel numb , just so on auto pilot 

    Sorry I haven't got any advice but just wanted to send a hug 

    Rach xx 

  • Hi Rachel,

    Thank you for the virtual hug, I totally understand the feeling numb. I think that's only natural. 

    The best advise I could give you is keep yourself busy. I'm sure you will be fine though even tho the waiting is hard. Hopefully you'll won't have cancer and I pray you don't. 

    Keep in touch and know I'm here if you wanna chat.

    Sending hugs right back at ya x

    Gina

  • Hi gina. I know what you're going through. I was diagnosed with breast cancer in June and I've just finished my chemo and will be having surgery in January. It is a huge shock when you're diagnosed. I had already convinced myself that it was cancer before it was confirmed, but I still found it really hard to accept. It's really good that yours is primary and you will feel so much better once you get your treatment plan. I found the waiting for results the hardest part. If you ever want to talk to me  I'm always happy to chat. Good luck with your mri and the rest of your journey 

     

    Rachel 

    I'm sorry to hear that your friends have gone through breast cancer. Did they have it at the same time? I also wanted to wish you good luck with your appointment. 

  • Gina and Amy 

    Thank you so so much for your message and the hugs 

    I really appreciate it 

    Did you guys find the waiting and not knowing really difficult? 
    I think it's the unknown? 

    It's lovely to read your posts as it really does help 

    You're both really inspiring so thank you  

    I'm finding this all really hard , I can't concentrate on anything and I'm not sleeping or eating much but I know I need to keep it together 

    Take care xx 

  • Rachie73, def this waiting & not knowing is horrendous. I saw my GP last Mon (30th) & my hospital appt is Mon 14th. Last week I was ok really, now I'm a nervous wreck & feel so emotional.

    Gina Amy & Rachie - sending you big hugs xx

  • Thanks for your messages Gina and Amy 

    Good luck with your MRI Gina , 

    Amy , well done in finishing your chemotherapy and good luck with your op in January 

    Its lovely to know I'm not alone as it feels very lonely at times 

    My friends were diagnosed 2 months apart , but they've done absolutely amazing, both had chemotherapy and ops and are doing so well, 

    Sending hugs to you both 

    xx 

  • Awwww Sarah thank you so much 

     

    you've done amazingly to keep it together ! Well done 

     

    I'm only 1 day down and really not coping ..... I know I must sound like such a wimp so huge apologies 

     

    Always here to chat 

     

    xx 

  • Rachie, I've sent you a friend request - we can support each other through this awful waiting game & whatever outcomes

  • Sarah and Rachel

     

    I know exactly how worried you both must be now and I really sympathise with you. I found a lump and I shrugged it off as nothing for a while. But then I had other breast changes and i just knew deep down that something wasn't right. I really wanted to avoid the drs and breast clinic but i knew i had to deal with it either way. I felt sick, couldn't  sleep and couldn't focus on anything else. It is a really stressful time but most lumps are benign. Whatever the outcome is, you will feel better once you know. And yeah, the waiting is the hardest part! Good luck with your appointments

     

     

  • Hi Amy 

     

    thank you for your lovely message , it's so comforting and I'm really grateful 

    I'm so sorry you've had to go through this but you are such an inspiration to us that have just joined looking for some comfort 

     

     

    To be honest I've felt for a whole that my left breast wasn't quite normal 

    I put it down to hormones but on Saturday when I felt the lump it's just been sheer panic 

     

    Thanks again 

     

    Big hugs 

     

    Rach xx