Hi all
i found a tiny lump (pea sized) in my left breast about a cm to the left of my areola. The lump feels very immobile to me, the skin moves across the top of it but it feels fixed, the lump is about the size and shape of a tic tac and is smooth and very hard. I've seen the GP today and she's referred me to the breast clinic in two weeks, and I'm trying to pretend I'm ok but really I'm petrified. I'm getting married in April and we want to start a family straight away (I'm 35) and it feels like the bottom has fallen out of my world. I'm really scared, not least because my best friend had breast cancer when we were both 30 and it came completely out of the blue and she had to have a mastectomy. I'm also overweight (despite my best intentions) and I'm feeling really ashamed and like if it is cancer that I've caused this and done it to myself. Any words of reassurance would be much appreciated!