Hi all, new here, 33 years old, 3 kids nearly all teens and married. Never had any major medical issues, so Tuesday while in the bath, I noticed a mole on my left breast which looked totally different then what it did previously. Out of curiosity I looked at a few photos where the mole was visible, and can see it's gone darker, the edges are blurry and jagged looking and it grown a little. I instantly called my doctor to get checked out, thinking he was going to tell me all was ok and not to worry. He told me he was worried, and has referred me on a 2 week referral. I am out of my mind with worry! I've read up melanoma and see it's very aggressive form of cancer ! I am so worried and stressed and don't want to talk to people because I don't want to worry people ! What do I do, how do I tell people I'm being referred? Should I wait until I know what's going on, or will I break trust with people I love for keeping this from them! I don't want to worry people if it's nothing ! My brain is going a million miles an hour then I keep feeling like I am over reacting! Help