I'm 34 next week and I have cerebral palsy. It causes spasm in my legs and my hips are tight. I've had 3 previous successful smears- a bit challenging and I think a couple have needed someone to hold my leg but have been doable. However at my most recent even with someone holding my leg the nurse tried with a small and large speculum and said she couldn't find my cervix. Laid in bed I've been able to get my knees to drop right back and I feel like she should've just been patient / given more time before inserting a huge and painful speculum. I usually have Botox in my legs for spasm but had none this year due to COVID. The failed smear really upset me, as I felt it was a sign of deterioration in my cp and it also brought home the impact on my intimate relationships other people have suggested diazepam to relax my muscles before or sitting in a birthing chair at the hospital. I wondered if anyone else had tips? It baffles me how my legs move enough for intimate relationships but 2 people can't do it for a smear
