Bile Duct Cancer

Hi all

My mum has been diagnosed with what they suspect to be bile duct cancer. I say suspect because the consultant said he is almost 100% sure it is from the scan but cannot confirm as my mum is too poorly to have a biopsy done. They also state she would not be able to withstand chemo etc. 
She has been sent back to her GP and effectively left to wait. She has lost so much weight and now weights 6.5 stone. 
Since this she is experiencing tummy ache (but high in the stomach) and a range of constipation and diarrhoea. The GP says it's anxiety.

Would anyone be able to advise if this is symptomatic of the cancer and how can I help? She is so upset and is struggling to come to term with the uncertainty and unknown. 
Thanks 

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat Bidders although I'm sorry about your mum. It must be very difficult to see her this way and tough on her not knowing what she's contending with.

    Unfortunately no-one here can say whether this is symptomatic of the cancer but if your mum has more than one doctor at her GP surgery then you could try getting a second opinion. To find out more just click here.

    Hopefully some of our members will offer their support and advice soon but if you'd like to talk things through with one of our cancer nurses then do give them a call. They're available Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m on 0808 800 4040.

    We also have some information on how to support a loved one with cancer just here.

    Sending best wishes to you both,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hi there

     

    so sorry to hear of your mother's diagnosis. My mum was diagnosed with advanced bile duct cancer last December and passed away a few weeks ago. Yet I am still googling and searching forums on Bile duct cancer.. perhaps my way of grieving and remembering mum.
    One of the first two symptoms she had even before her diagnosis was pain in the upper stomach area and frequent diarrhoea. 
     

    The indigestion and diarrhoea& constipation didn't really get any better as time passed. Puréed pumpkin was something she found easy to eat.. anything that is bland and gentle on the stomach. Oily (or anything with oil?) and fibreous food would be the worst. She found protein difficult to digest although we were keen for her to have some as she was losing weight & muscle rapidly. For the constipation it was important that she moved and exercised gently (like walking) as the build up of gas in her stomach was causing pain.

     

    I am sorry that your family are going through this and your poor mum is feeling so anxious. If you find it helpful to hear more of my mum's experience please ask. I would like to help in anyway possible. 
     

    J