New member

Hello everyone. After nearly 35 years of marriage my wife sadly passed away in January 2020 from a Metastatic Sarcoma. I'm 72 years old with no children, alone in lockdown and desperately sad. A day or two after her passing I saw something in the news and wished I could tell her. That night I had a really vivid dream in which she was walking towards me down the passageway in perfect health, I gave her a hug and told her the news I'd read. She was pleased to hear it and she then told me I could get rid of anything of hers I didn't want and promptly disappeared! A robin has been sitting on top of a solar light in my back garden looking at me through the window and it's also been perching on a handrail I built for my wife to use which she sadly never got to. I firmly believe it's her especially after reading other people's stories on here. I have asked her to give me a sign that she's here with me but nothing's happened yet. Hopefully it will happen, that will put my mind at rest.

  • Hi there ...

    Bless ya, she did give you a sign ... the dream, the robin ... a robin often appears when we loose someone dear .. there's a thread on here called "signs from loved ones "  or close to that ... there's lots of stories on there, just like yours ... 

    I felt my mum around so many times ... little things along the way .. I just look up and say high .. it doesn't have to be big things ... that would scare you .. so take those little signs and chat to her, she's walking just a step behind ... she's making sure your o.k .. so get the old pics out .. and she'll be sitting right there with you .. listening ...

    Your not alone ... wer all here if you want a little chat ... and you could help others on here too .. we all know loss .. so it's like one big family , where all are welcome .. there's lots come on here who loose someone to this crule cancer... but reach out .. I'm here most days ... if you want a little natter ...

    Sending you a vertual hug... I know how lonely this carona virus is making things .. so always here .. Chrissie x

  • Thank you so much Chrissie, it's comforting to know that people who care are out there. Virtual hugs back to you too.xx

  • Any time lenny... I came on here nearly three years ago now .. and made some amazing vertual buddies .. so take care ... jump in anywhere .. and welcome ... here's to your little robin too ... x