Just came on here to say hi. I've been scrolling through forums over the last few years and thoughth I should actually get involved rather than look from the sidelines.
I'm 22 and my dad was diagnosed with incurable and inoperable lung cancer in 2018 after a bout of pleurisy the previous summer. He's been having chemo every 3 weeks for 2 years. A few weeks ago on Mother's Day he had a seizure and then doctors found 2 tumours in his brain and some small ones lurking about as well. The Consultant who is so lovely and amazing was really shocked to see it had spread as there was no other indication.
Mum taken it all so well up until now, but she's finding it hard now that he's a totally different person with another personality. It's as if he's turned slightly autistic overnight. Does anyone else find this? Don't know if it's caused by the tumour or the radiotherapy?
Staying positive, watching lots of Disney Plus and Marvel and listening to lots of happy music and country songs. Making memories and hoping to make him smile every day.
