Hi I never thought I'd be a member of this foram I suddenly have burning a big lump hard skin on around my nipple and size changes ..all the tick tick signs . I'm prepared but I know this sounds silly but I just can't tell my kids or close friends as I can't handle dealing with the reaction . How can I give them news that will hurt them ..I know your all going to say tell someone .. but for my own mental health I just can't .. does anyone else feel the same ?
I'm single
Have no parents or siblings
Have 2 grown boys
I know it's going to be bad news but like I said I have prepared e en looking at sorting fi ances I'm so practical lol to the point of already decided to have a double mastectomy and looking forward to sgavo g my hair off . I believe it's a mind set I'm tryi g to take some control and deal with it as no point crying and getting depressed as that is a downwould spiral but if I just deal with the situation as it happens in a positive way ..
Can I also ask I have had pain in the top middle part of my arm like a pain to the Bone and nausea has anyone else had this ? Xx
